Its a true love story.we love each other truly and live globally apart. We both are married. In short we saw each other in family gathering when i visited my country. we didnt had any conversation but we knew we fell in lov. after i came back we connected each other through net. next time i visited after a year and we talked and talked and we found each other so similar. our first kiss, we knew next day we will be miles apart. Its been 5 yrs. and we have met 3 times total we have not spent even a day fully.
Everyday we miss each other but we cannot communicate openly.
Deep Inside we truly lov each other a lot. We dont know when we will see each other again. we dont want to hurt or disturb our family. Is anybody in my situation where you dont know when you will see your true love again. There is no easy way for us to see each other. Strict country rules , and cultural issues. Love Life and Live Thanks.
2006-11-04 16:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by babli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WELL,,,, The biggest thing you have going is you HAVEN'T SPENT TIME TOGETHER, if you were single and he was single you would probably date for a month or so and find out he ain't all that,,,,, and you would be looking for another Mr. right,,,
The taboo factor is working here ,,, you can't have him and he can't have you and the world is so big,,,, BS ,,if you put this much energy into your own husband,,,, you both would be MUCH happier,,,,,, send dear John a letter,,, releasing him to his wife and family and put the effort into your own real life,,,, and quit undermining your marriage and family
2006-11-04 16:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl what fantasy pill are you on...the reason he is so exciting is cause you can't have him..and if you did, he would leave all his clothes around, scratch his balls, while watching TV, burp.Drink, .and you would have to cook, clean, and just might as well get over him..you are married, Remember..? Did you forget...besides you just don't know how many other women he talks to on the computer..so Move on...get over it..feel sorry for your husband and his wife..you are playing both your husband and his wife for a fool..
2006-11-05 00:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice. Either each of you devote yourself to your families and break it off or come clean and get divorced.
You are hurting your family whether they know or not.
Get over yourself.
2006-11-05 00:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up that fantasy & get on with your life with your husband. That's what it is, a fantasy, you might would find that after you started a real relationship with him that it wouldn't be as good as you anticipated.
2006-11-05 00:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's hard. I don't know what to tell you, but I do wish you all the best and a life filled with happiness.
2006-11-05 00:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly, this is one of those "not meant to be" situations(for starters your both married) pursueing this will kill it's magic..just shift your thinking to "this is my most deeply loved friend" and try to concentrate on whether your marriage will work and wait and see if fate might surprise you but, don't count on it....the "grass is greener" thing can be terribly deceptive..
2006-11-05 00:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by paradigm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For different reasons, I am right where you are. I don't have any advice, but I can sympathize. Sucks don't it. You're not alone. Sorry I couldn't give you any advice. Take care.
2006-11-05 00:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by raintigar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋