I'm a 16 year old straight girl and I think I'm falling for one of my closest friends who is definitely gay. He hugs, kisses me (on the cheek), and also tells me he loves me just about everyday so it's that much harder to get over my feelings for him. I know he'll never love me back the same way...so what should i do?
2006-11-04 16:48:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are to young to make a mistake like this , just talk to your parents
2006-11-04 17:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by sayakha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you love him
more than a friend
more than anything
and im 16
trust me
almost all the time we fall for our best friends (opp. sex)
its because we get to know them so well, and we like everything about them, thats why we're best friends
jus tell himm
then if he's a good guy, he'll know what to say/do , not hurting you
2006-11-04 16:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except you're effective you could curl his ft depart issues as they're his phrases of endearment could enable you recognize which you're acceptable for him only the way you're and that's all he desires from you extraordinary now in case you're taking it to a diverse point you ought to lose all of it ask your self...is it worth it? believe me his existence sort by myself will finally carry him greater problems than your existence sort will as his isn't broadly customary whilst that element comes and he desires his closest chum - be there only as you in lots of situations have been remember in case you're as close as you assert and could the time come whilst he sounds like exploring in case you reside genuine, he will turn to you first only be gentle :)
2016-12-17 04:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that you love the attention this gay guy is giving you rather than the guy? He loves you in the same way your girlfriends love you and sadly you will have to live with that. Good Luck!
2006-11-04 16:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by nikki_butterfly777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish his friendship ... you never know when you might just need a really close friend that you can turn to without having to worry bout whether thier partner will be jealous of you ... true friends are very rare
2006-11-04 16:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh be careful..he dont like girls so your just setting your self up for heartache.Just enjoy your friendship cause that's all you will probably be. and there nothing wrong with that.plus what happens if you did get to get together and it didnt work out you can never go back to what you had before you got initmate.
2006-11-04 17:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by sublime badfish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem! it sucks doesn't it. Because you finally find the guy who is perfect, but he doesn't like you and he never will. all you can do is try to get over it, which really is bad advice but there's nothing else you really can do. :(
2006-11-04 16:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by R-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him any way ....As a friend because you know you will never be a girlfriend and you have already excepted that ,
2006-11-04 16:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve got a lotta growing up to dear.
2006-11-04 16:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept him as a friend and leave it at that.
2006-11-04 16:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋