Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

There is this girl the I dated for 7 months, and she broke up with me because she thinks that im a jerk and I did nothing to make her think that, how do I prove to her that I am not a jerk

2006-11-02 09:01:21 · 12 answers · asked by mbrash5 2 in Singles & Dating

I spoke with my husband last night and he basically made a joke out of everything I talked to him about him neglecting me & my needs. (See my first question). I didn't mention in the first question that he is verbally and physically abusive. Not to the point of actually punching me but everyone I talk to says what he does is physical because it hurts and I tell him not to do it. I don't have any money and I need a lawyer or something. Maybe a legal separation. I live in Missouri. Does anyone have any suggestions??

2006-11-02 09:01:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a really shy girl, and i have a few guy friends but i've actaully fallen for one of them.....i'm not to close to him, but recently i have been having trouble taking with him, and another girl has caught his eye because she's outgoing and easy to talk to. i blush a lot when i'm with him which makes me uncomfortable, and i blush even more when i don't know what to say......he had been being friendly with me and playful, but now he just stopped and i'm afraid he doesn't like me even as a friend....i'm scared i'll never get a boyfriend because the other girl always gets the guy....is there any thing i can do?
or am i doomed for life?
and i'm considered one of the prettiest girls in school, it's not fair how ugly fat cows get all the guys i like, is there something wrong with me???!

2006-11-02 09:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kotenno 2 in Singles & Dating

There r these 2 girls in my class and my 1 of my BEST friends hangs around w/ them and likes tehm and stuff. I CAN'T STAND THEM! What do i do? Either i go to my other best friends (which dont get along w/ my other best friends) or stay w/ my friends right now and risk LOSING IT ALL AND MURDERING THE FREAKING STUPID GIRLS. I've tried giving them chances. BUT I CAN"T! What do i do?

2006-11-02 09:00:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-02 08:59:37 · 12 answers · asked by jw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

last time my wife and I had *ex, I was fingering her and I think my wedding ring came off inside...at least I hope it did... anyway, how do I ask her to check if it's there?... if it's not there and I lost it, she gonna be real upset that I don't know where it is?

2006-11-02 08:59:27 · 26 answers · asked by jeep_man129 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do? first of all, i dont find her attractive in personality or looks.. And i dont want to just come straight forward and tell her because ill just hurt her. Should i just ignore her?? Or, change myself for her to dislike me?? She says im her best friend forever.. i hardly even talk to her :S

2006-11-02 08:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by Kyle L 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard my dad talking on the phone with someone saying that he was going to leave my mom.and that he kinda wont because he dose'nt want to leave me and my brother.but im scared that he'll leave my mom.what should i do or what can i do?

2006-11-02 08:58:48 · 4 answers · asked by buble c 1 in Family

Sorry this may be a bit juvenille but what do you consider a boyfriend and girlfriend...are they best friends or just go out on dates...What do you think?

2006-11-02 08:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...in his life before you met?

2006-11-02 08:57:28 · 43 answers · asked by slıɐuǝoʇ 6 in Singles & Dating

I plan on moving out there once I am married. I would like to know if anyone has done this before and did they face any problems, such as immigration, getting a visa to work or adjusting to the lifestyle.

Are there any words of advice that you would give me. I have a dregree in psychology and education and experience with working with children with learning difficulties, would that help in any way when it comes to getting a job?

With getting married did you have to go through a interview where they ask you questions to see if you truly know your partner for immagration reasons?

thank you.

2006-11-02 08:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by carlita 1 in Weddings

Ok, some info first...I am a 16 yr old boy who excels in school and has never done anything wrong...my parents are split up and I live with my mom only . I have no siblings.

The problem: I CANT DO ANYTHING. It makes me so angry...I'm not allowed to go out...not allowed to just hang out with friends...not allowed to do anything. I get invited to parties and everything...but I can't go. I don't really get to choose my friends, my mom has to approve of them. On the rare occaision that I'm allowed to leave the house, my mom interrogates me about who,what,where,when,why, how, how long..etc. I've never done anything... I've never been to a party, concert, etc..

I know most teenagers go through this but IT IS BAD...I know when I go to college (if im not forced to live at home) I'm going to EXPLODE and ruin my life with a sudden realization of freedom...I have a job but I make minimum wage which would be impossible to live off of, and I know moving out would be a stupid idea anyways...HELP

2006-11-02 08:57:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Recently a friend was living a secret life where she was doing things that she knew her family would never approve of and she came out to me. How do i be there for her?

2006-11-02 08:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by getlykeme 1 in Friends

2006-11-02 08:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 08:55:44 · 12 answers · asked by Nosie... 1 in Singles & Dating

they divorced 4 years ago.
We are married for 1 year & 1/2

2006-11-02 08:55:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First off, I know this is really bad cause I'm married. My husband and I have been married 3 years and argue constantly about EVERYTHING!!! We really don't have much of a marriage. No sex, no comprimises.So, I met this other guy that I really like through a website. I really had fun talking to him and vice versa so, we finally met. We seemed to be hitting it off and flirted like crazy!!! When it came to the kiss, though. I didn't kiss him back and I wish I would have! I was caught waaayyy off guard. Since then, we haven't talked quite so much like we used to. Yesterday, I decided to make a bold move and show up at his door in a sexy nightie. We barely talked while I was there. He flirted a little bit but, that about it. He never made a move. When I left, I got a hug, a friendly arm punch, and a "See ya!" I talked to him later and he was really weird acting almost like he was blowing me off but, said he was waiting on me to make the move yesterday. I really like him. What does he want?

2006-11-02 08:55:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This dude asked me if I liked him cause he likes me. I told him that I would talk to him later because it was time to go home. What should I tell him?? My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and have no intention of breaking up. I don't wanna hurt him. What should I say or do?

2006-11-02 08:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Kai-Kai 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, my mom and dad has been divorced since I was little. I was wondering, when do I get to choose whether I get to go to my dad's anymore. I hate going there. What age?

2006-11-02 08:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by fergie102894 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and what do you think about her?

2006-11-02 08:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 08:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day me and my girlfriend did it for the first time together. She was still a virgin. I didnt get to c*u*m because she was in too much pain and she wanted to stop. Now people tell me that c*u*m comes out during sex too, just not at the end and that she could get pregnaunt. So can she still get pregnaunt even though I didnt n-u-t. And today she just let me know that she was supposed to have her period this week. Am I pretty much screwed? I want to know what ya'll got to say. Please give me the right information.

2006-11-02 08:52:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man never wants to have sex. NEVER.
We have sex like once every six months. I used to get upset about it -but I just don't even try anymore. It just turns me into an emotional mess and he just gets defensive. I used to think he had a problem with porn - but we got rid of the computer at home so I don't think that is it anymore. He gets up early so he is asleep at like 8pm and I am up til at least 11. But what about weekends, hell - he could wake me up at 5 - I don't care when we have it, but I need sex!He is always making sex jokes - but he is all talk and NO action.
So - what's the deal?? Do some people just have NO sex drive.

Oh - and I know he is not cheating. There is NO WAY. He never leaves the house. Except to go to work . So I don't suspect cheating at all.

What do I do. Leaving him is not an option. I have 4 kids and # 5 is on the way. So yes - we have had sex, but seriously the last time was the day this baby was concieved - over 4 months ago.
Help me!

2006-11-02 08:51:58 · 29 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...Or when I feel guilty about something??

2006-11-02 08:51:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend loves going down on me which is great but my qustion is i want to make it as pleasurable as possible for her. What can i do, other than drink pineapple juice and eat pineapple, to improve the taste. She says its fine as it is and every now and again she will be like "wow that was really sweet that time". I know the whole dont eat asparagus, or drink coffee because that will bitter it up. Also how long untill the flavor is effected. She does it about a couple times a day.

2006-11-02 08:51:23 · 8 answers · asked by LT. DAN 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting maried in 2008 and I need ppl ideals

2006-11-02 08:50:46 · 10 answers · asked by TX2STEPPER3602@YAHOO.COM 1 in Weddings

can any1 give me any good realationships tips cos i'm fed up of being single

2006-11-02 08:50:40 · 12 answers · asked by hellwot 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school and there's this boy in two of my classes. We go from this one class to another and for four minutes while we're walking we see each other. I look at him and he looks at me but we never say anything.

I try to break the ice but nothing comes out of my mouth. We are both kinda on the shy side...but not too shy. I don't think he has a gf and he might like me.

Do I drop my pen and see if he picks it up? Do I ask him if this weeks football game is at home or away? I'm not sure, I want to build up a friendship before anything else happens.

2006-11-02 08:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by manateeluver32 3 in Singles & Dating

been married for 19 yrs with 2 teen kids. cant stand the drinking but love my husband. i want to make him choose but i am so scared he will choose the beer.. then what does that mean our marriage was just a big lie?

2006-11-02 08:50:32 · 16 answers · asked by momoftwobestkids 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24 my little sister just turned 14. I was reading her myspace page the other day and read a blog she posted recently saying how she's lonley and wants a boyfriend so bad. She went on saying that she wants someone to hold her and love her and make her happy. I haven't brought it up to her yet that I've read it. Growing up neither me or my 3 sisters had a great relationship with my dad. Because of that I had horrible experiences with boys growing up. I didn't realize what I was doing then, but I constantly sought the love of a "man" and suffered alot because of that. I don't want her to go through the same. It hurts me to see her heading toward the same road of heartache and disappointment.
What can I say to her to help?

2006-11-02 08:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family