i'm a really shy girl, and i have a few guy friends but i've actaully fallen for one of them.....i'm not to close to him, but recently i have been having trouble taking with him, and another girl has caught his eye because she's outgoing and easy to talk to. i blush a lot when i'm with him which makes me uncomfortable, and i blush even more when i don't know what to say......he had been being friendly with me and playful, but now he just stopped and i'm afraid he doesn't like me even as a friend....i'm scared i'll never get a boyfriend because the other girl always gets the guy....is there any thing i can do?
or am i doomed for life?
and i'm considered one of the prettiest girls in school, it's not fair how ugly fat cows get all the guys i like, is there something wrong with me???!
2006-11-02 09:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kotenno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if your so pretty, why are you so withdrawn?
Beautfiul girls should be outspoken, confident in their looks & personality & most of all not shy.
It takes awhile to overcome shyness.
I used to be like you, shy, I'm pretty but never outspoken because I was afraid of what people would think of me.
Now, I don't give a sh*t. People can say what they want and I'll tell them where to go in a heartbeat.
It all start with confidence & making everywhere a comfort zone for you. Take a deep breathe and just go for it & open that little mouth and start chatting away.
Surprise him & ask him how his day has been, whats he doing after school, or "How's that exam we did yesterday? did you think you went well?"
Crack a joke or two to break the ice, the best jokes I found were always the truth about teachers, such as "Have you noticed Miss Smith flares her notrils a lot? I swear she used to be a race horse!" Usually if you say something mean but funny about someone that no one else dares say, it makes people laugh because they know you have the balls to say it.
Go for it girl! Show those big fat ugly cows that you can be just as outspoken!
2006-11-02 09:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-02 09:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really there is no way to, your just going to have to realize that sometimes if you want something bad enough you'll speak up and go get it.
2006-11-02 09:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angelica H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn how to get their attention. try droping somthing in front of them and bend way doan to pick it up. or whear a low cut shirt and un-zip you sweater just a bit lower when he is besdie you. try it he's attention will be back on you belive me ;-)
2006-11-02 09:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate, but really all you have to remember is that life is what you make of it.
2006-11-02 09:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugly fat cows hunh? maybe that's why you have trouble
2006-11-02 09:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋