First off, I know this is really bad cause I'm married. My husband and I have been married 3 years and argue constantly about EVERYTHING!!! We really don't have much of a marriage. No sex, no comprimises.So, I met this other guy that I really like through a website. I really had fun talking to him and vice versa so, we finally met. We seemed to be hitting it off and flirted like crazy!!! When it came to the kiss, though. I didn't kiss him back and I wish I would have! I was caught waaayyy off guard. Since then, we haven't talked quite so much like we used to. Yesterday, I decided to make a bold move and show up at his door in a sexy nightie. We barely talked while I was there. He flirted a little bit but, that about it. He never made a move. When I left, I got a hug, a friendly arm punch, and a "See ya!" I talked to him later and he was really weird acting almost like he was blowing me off but, said he was waiting on me to make the move yesterday. I really like him. What does he want?
2006-11-02 08:55:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my goodness, don't do this! You made a commitment with your husband when you said your vows three years ago. "For better or for worse". Please don't flush three years and the years you were dating away:(
I am truly sorry you and your husband are going through these tough times, but I believe none the less you can work through them.
My parents have been married for twenty years and sure they've had and have rough times. But they work them out.
Know one said marriage was easy, you gotta work at it, but its worth fighting for!
Don't do anything you will quickly regret. This guy will not make you happy, it will just make things worse.
Please don't do this to yourself and your marriage. If ever you need advise on how to help your marriage and make it better just email me. But I will not give you any advise on committing a moral sin. You gotta know where you stand.
I'll keep you guys in my prayers:(
2006-11-02 09:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fcuking mess. If you want to cheat on your husband (and he is still your husband, no matter how much you argue) do him the favor of at least divorcing him first.
And as for the other guy.... he wanted you to make the move?... What the fcuk does he call showing up at the door in a sexy nightie? If it was me, I'd have bent you over the couch before you could get your coat off.
you probably came on too strong and scared him. Either that or he's a doofus. Either way, you two were made for each other...
2006-11-02 08:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably felt that you two had more than enough time to get to know each other in the Internet and maybe he was expecting the same response he gave you with the kiss. since you didn't really respond he might feel rejected. he obviously want you to make the first move so that you two can experience a sexual encounter. as for your husband talk to him and if you think that this guy is for you let your husband go since i believe that being in a relationship that has no communication is not good for anyone.also if you have kids think about what you are going to do more than twice because they come first and they will be the ones affected by the decisions that you make. i hope i helped you good luck with that.
2006-11-02 09:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by cosita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your question should be, "What do I want."
You should take a step back from both situations, figure out what you want to do and move forward with a clean slate. Otherwise, it sounds like your life is going to get very messy quickly.
I've been there. It sucks. Make a better choice now while you still have options.
2006-11-02 08:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Semi-charmed 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may be telling the truth. After all, you are married. He may as well be a gentleman who won't take advantage of you. You should be happy about it. If you do decide on cheating on your husband (don't get me wrong, I am not saying you should, or shouldn't, I am not judging), then make the first move. Strip him of something.
2006-11-02 09:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, it's not a good idea to do that when you are married. If the marriage isn't working, cut it loose and go from there. This guys coolness is an indication of how he feels, go with that. Good luck
2006-11-02 08:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by FireBug 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married Woman attracts a recipient for mating....hm, sounds interesting, this could be bigger than Family Ties, lets look deeper into this.
Does he buy you things?
Does he offer to take you to dinner?
Maybe, this guy wants more than a one night stand, maybe this guy is after your love and heart..who knows about these things, but since your married, I would just take the free dinner ticket and thank him.
2006-11-02 09:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't know darling, but i would stay the hell away! he sound really weird! If you aren't that happy in your marriage end it! You owe yourself that respect. Find someone that isn't off the web, you never know what kind of weirdo's are out there.
good luck!
2006-11-02 09:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by cowgirl! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's embarassed because he thinks you shot him down, so now he wants to act like he was just playing. He figures that he'll wait until you make a move to see what you want.
2006-11-02 08:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by L.A.M.B. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it were me i would be wanting you to take complete control of the situation and just take from me what you wanted !!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 08:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by HARLEY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋