...in his life before you met?
2006-11-02 08:57:28 · 43 answers · asked by slıɐuǝoʇ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not!
2006-11-02 08:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by A W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For those who say No! I think they are short sighted.
In this age and time, if a guy has had some gay experience but decided it is not for him, then surely this is an honest person. What is more, it is good to know he has tried it and not into it. Unlike someone who never tired it and discovers so when he is married to you with children! Or worse, like many bisexual man who would do it behind their partners. You do not want this to happen to you?
I would respect an honest man but you will need to ask them the really important question: " Do you get these feelings regularly? And have you cheated on your partners with man or woman in the past?"
The worry with many girls is that while they can look after themselves, dress sexy, do everything their man happy, they simply cannot win if he wants another man! In some exceptional cases, a girl may get seriously turned on by it. You want to be honest, you have to tell her everything and be honest about your feelings. If these experiences were one off, then fair enough. If these experiences are going to be regular, then you need to find the lady who is into this.
On the otherside of the specturm, for the guys who say, gross or no way...wait a second, wouldn't you agree with me if the situation were other way round... that is if your girlfriend told you she have had a lesbian experience in the past?
2006-11-06 07:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Fadi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is up to the guy>>> As long as there is honesty about sexual past and your not putting your new partner at risk I would suppose that's up to the the individual your about to meet up!! I personally have been married for 5 yrs and I don't know how I would react if I were to find out now. but I would've been better able to make a decision if It were something I knew about before sexual contact with the person!
2006-11-02 09:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caroline Portillo seems to have accepted her husband Michael's little 'experiments' in the past. I like to think that it wouldn't matter to me, but in practice I think it's something I couldn't share in (you know, man/man thing not my experience) so that would put me off. But I suppose it depends on how wonderful & attentive he is now, and whether or not I caught him looking at blokes!
2006-11-02 09:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. if i went out with a guy and knew he'd been with men, I'd probably pretend it didn't matter if i really liked the guy but at the end of the day I'd be constantly thinking is it gonna last? is he straight or not. if i wasn't into him that much i would break it off right way!
2006-11-02 10:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by free_wild_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was only experimenting, then fair enough, but if he is bi-sexual then that is a whole different area (nothing wrong with this of course - just a different issue)
2006-11-02 11:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most I would think would say no. I dated a guy who had an experience. I never really thought about it much I guess. It was kind of weird at first, but I just didn't think about it much after that.
2006-11-02 08:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am all for gay couples. However, honestly if I was going out with a guy who told me he had sex with another guy, I would be apprehensive and a bit turned off.
2006-11-02 08:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by lilazngurly53146 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If an ex-gay guy asked me out I would say no for more than one reason...one being
he might jump the fence again
friends? yes
more then friends? no
2006-11-02 08:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is all right.you now know how it feels,and what woman needs and want,,it would be best if you don;t tell people.untill your with the one you want to spend the rest of your life with,,
2006-11-02 09:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it wouldn't be....well, maybe.
I guess it would depend on what exactly happened and under what circumstances.
But more than likely that would be a no for me.
2006-11-02 08:59:41 · answer #11 · answered by Ms Independent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋