what do i do? first of all, i dont find her attractive in personality or looks.. And i dont want to just come straight forward and tell her because ill just hurt her. Should i just ignore her?? Or, change myself for her to dislike me?? She says im her best friend forever.. i hardly even talk to her :S
2006-11-02 08:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by Kyle L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sound like she is going to be hurt anyways. Place yourself in her shoes and think to yourself if you want someone dating you that don't like you. I just think that is so wrong to do somebody like that. You shouldn't hide your feelings like that. It hurts her and most importantly it hurts you. You should not have to change for no one.
2006-11-02 09:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by pinkybrains1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor Kid!! Sounds like you have a heart of gold and it's driving you nuts!
No reason to change yourself. That's not a way to live life. We are who we are.
Try just ignoreing her. IF that doesn't work, your going to have to hurt her and tell her how you DON'T feel for her. It seems like it's hurting you, so hurting her in return won't kill her.
2006-11-02 17:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do. Don't just start ignoring her outta nowhere. That hurts. Atleast be a man about it and be direct with her. So atleast she'll know not to do the same with future guys.
Let her down gently.
2006-11-02 17:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's acting desperate.
I totally liked this guy ages ago, and once when I called too many times, he called me desperate. I stopped calling him immediately and didn't talk to him for months. Eventually we became great friends, and he was even my roommate for awhile, but that 'desperate' thing made me step back.
2006-11-02 17:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going out? If you are ,what attracted you to this person in the first place? If you don't like her, don't hang out with her. its that simple. Just be honest.
2006-11-02 17:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would love to date her she is a nice girl but unfortunately your incredibly dedicated to your girlfriend that even though she lives 200 miles away you love dearly.
2006-11-02 17:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move away from her but don't her that, she will realize it on her own once she wants to. Then she won't like you anymore cuz she'll feel like you hate her.
2006-11-02 17:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋