Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

"I don't want your hand this time, I'll save myself"

That's what my grandson said to me after the attack my husband caused. He doesn't want my help. He doesn't want anyone's help. He's spialing faster and faster into depression. Ever since he was kidnapped things havent been the same.

HELP!

2006-11-02 12:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa X 1 in Family

so i was in the bathroom 2day during 4th block at school and i went in the stall 2 pee and when i came out and washed my hands i begin 2 wlk out and this balloon lke floats in the room as if someone was holding it but it was only me and the balloon there and the balloon said "Good Luck" and just continued 2 float in the bathroom then i left and went 2 class. i no this sounds stupid but does anyone thnk this means anything?!

2006-11-02 11:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok..my frined lets call her katrina invited one of the guys i like over to her house and i asked if i was invited and she was like no its only going to be me and lets call him bob. wut should i do?

2006-11-02 11:59:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he calls me in the morning and never calls back during the day. he says he is busy. i feel really horrible when i cannot talk to him. up to the point that i get sick. i cannot call him at work only he can call

2006-11-02 11:59:13 · 26 answers · asked by rennygyal 1 in Singles & Dating

Just because I'm a good looking guy doesn't mean I'm just a piece of meat for them, I have feelings too. What is wrong with women these days, all they want me for is sex. They don't even talk to me.

2006-11-02 11:58:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm pregnant, and my bf wants to have sex all the time, but I really don't want to. I feel like he isn't happy with me anymore. What can I do to make him feel better, and to keep our relationship steady?

2006-11-02 11:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by HU4L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a great relationship with all my exes-as friends. It's good to know that they are doing well and are happy, and i think the fact that we have spent a year or more as the most important people in each other's lives is not something that should be thrown away forever. so why does the person that was once a particularly important one, as in, the person who was closest to 'the one' in so many ways, not want to have anything to do with me anymore? it's not to do with lack of feeling, i know that, because we were as close as any two people could be. but now..well...it's as though he would rather pretend I never existed, and i don't understand why. i don't WANT anything from him, I'm happily engaged. I just care about him is all, and find it hard to understand why he is happy to not know or care or respond to me in any way when at one stage all that mattered was me to him and him to me. hmm what do you think?

2006-11-02 11:58:00 · 28 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

her rich parents didn't even pony up a decent dowry....how should I handle this woman because I am losing it very fast! (she's also very messy and stinky sometimes)

2006-11-02 11:57:34 · 18 answers · asked by saskugd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have our marriage license, but i see he's back on the dating sites the day we got our license asking women for sex and wanting to marry them.I made a profile as another woman[the only way to catch him]and it hurt like hell to see him talking to this woman [really me] saying "I have no girlfriend" and "I love you & want to marry you". He works at a church run shelter so I turned his *** in for doing this from a Christian shelter.They fired him.Now I feel guilty. He even sent pics of his dick to this woman, taken from the church shelter. Boy, the director was pissed. Did I do the right thing? I needed the truth for once & in 3 years of this I've NEVER heard the truth. Also what do you think about him contacting other women after planning our wedding???? I'm a mess.

2006-11-02 11:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by Debbie Ratliff 1 in Singles & Dating

o my gosh. i'm moving in january, and i already skipped a grade this year , which gives me a load more of trouble, because all my bestest , most loving peeps are still in 9th grade, but i'm in 10th grade now.. The cliques at our school are already formed, and i can tell they're not looking for new peeps in their grouup. i belong in a big group because i can't stand being alone, and i have to be surrounded by a group of people or else, i'll feel awkward!! but the truth is, i'm like, never shy in front of people i know, but when it comes to meeting new people, i'm shy as hell. please help, because i'm moving soon and i'll never get to see the friends i already have!! Please Help~!

2006-11-02 11:56:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or is it just the exceptionally moronic ones that post a majority of the same reptitive f*cking posts here?

I'm am absolutely sure that those who answer will prove my point.

2006-11-02 11:56:43 · 20 answers · asked by drsteve362005 6 in Singles & Dating

its like ever since i got with him as far as i could remember is that... he has always put me at the bottom.... there was alway something more important to him... like if ... i wanted to spend time with him.. and id ask.. hed chose his friends over me... its like i asked him.. if he loved me hed say yes... but then when i askd him to compare with how much.. he says something.. like... not that much.... he always tells me that i love him more than he loves me... and i honestly dont think that its fair... that im with someone that doesnt love me equally. so today i askd him... who do you love more.. his car... or me... he told me that i can leave at ne time... and that his car.. will leave when he tells it tooo... he even puts his car in front of me.. on our anniversary.. he was ont he fone more than half the time... he said that it was business... but i think that since its our anniversary.. i should at least get some sort of attention... but i didnt.. his friends alawyas come first

2006-11-02 11:55:51 · 17 answers · asked by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl whom I work with. I'm kinda sweet on her and I think the feeling may be mutual. She is always way more friendly to me than most. Always laughs at my jokes. Sometimes I detect she's a little nearvous around me in a cute way. She busts my B**ls in a friendly sorta way with practical jokes and stuff. I'd love to know if she really does like me or wether its just my imagination. Does anybody have any suggestions how to find out without directly asking her or getting any friends involved as I can do neither. I think when I know for sure I can start eating and sleeping properly again :) I'm 34... you'd think Id be beond this...lol

2006-11-02 11:54:40 · 9 answers · asked by shaymeyabu2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 11:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family

MY GF WONT HARDLY TALK TO ME SHE DOESN`T HAVE A REASON NOT TO. SHE IS PREGNANT I REALLY LOVE HER AND WANT TO SAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP BEFORE IT IS TO LATE I TRULY LOVE AND CARE FOR HER I AM GOING TO COLLEGE AND GO HOME TO SEE HER EVERY WEEKEND I SEND HER LETTERS AND ON HER BIRTHDAY I SUPRISED HER WITH FLOWERS AND A CARD I MADE FOR HER I LOVE THIS GIRL LIKE NO OTHER WHAT CAN I DO SHE SAYS SHE AINT HAPPY BUT WONT TALK TO ME ABOUT IT WHEN SHE DOES TALK TO ME IF I DONT SAY ANYTHING FOR FIVE SECONDS SHE IS READY TO HANG UP THE PHONE WHAT CAN I DO PLEASE HELP

2006-11-02 11:54:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here it is we have been married almost 13 years he could not keep his hands of me when we were dating now he never wants to make love. what should I do?

2006-11-02 11:54:14 · 21 answers · asked by christine z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 11:53:58 · 28 answers · asked by jakel07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have such love and compassion for children. I am very troubled because I am not sure what to do about my situation. I have two step children (ages 9 and 11) whom I have gone out of my way for and have opened up to and have treated just as I do my own children. I have involed them in all aspects of my life. They do not live with my husband and I, however they visit every other weekend. I am at wits end because they treat us horribly. They ignore me, disrespect me and disrespect the other children in my husband and my home. When they come over, they hit my children, yell at them, and refuse to follow any of the rules that my husband and I set forth. I have tried very hard to be patient, but my nerves are growing thin. My husband tries very hard to correct his children's behavior, but to no avail. It does not help that their mother bad mouths everyone in our household, so we can't turn to her for any help. It is difficult not only on me, but my children and my husband.

2006-11-02 11:52:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you can only have 1 answer for both!!
humour to me is vital
i hate arrogance!!
you........??

2006-11-02 11:52:55 · 36 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 11:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am not a weirdo or any thing just my friends and i was talking and just wondering why some guys are afraid to go down on a girl?

2006-11-02 11:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he went out with her and she says that she doesn't feelings for him but they flirt a lot and he still likes but they're just friends. I think he would like me if he got to know me more but he barely even notices me! I have his cell number what should i do!

2006-11-02 11:51:32 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Singles & Dating

Wat do u look 4 in a girl and wat impresses u?

2006-11-02 11:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by Y 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you, could you stay with a guy who was awsome in every way other than in bed??? Yes I am having problems..lol... I tried everything but no success... now I'm a complete head case and stuck in a cycle of... poor performance... worry... low self esteem... performance worsens... more worry.. lower self esteem.. and so on...

2006-11-02 11:51:14 · 19 answers · asked by mrbubbachowpuss 2 in Singles & Dating

Very close, or not close at all? My siblings and I have pretty large age gaps between us, but we're still pretty close for the most part. What about you?

2006-11-02 11:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family

Okay, this boy asked me out, and my friend said yes to him. So now we go out, but i dont exactly like him. Hes not revoltingly ugly, but if i dont really want to go out with him. My friend also went out with this boy, that she didnt like, either. She broke up with him, and then i was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend, because i already have another boyfriend that doesnt go to my school. I was gonna break up with the one at my school, but then someone heard about it, and told his sister, (which is in 8th grade) and she thinks that i was gonna break up with him just because my friend broke up with her boyfriend. But it wasnt just because of that, its cuz i dont even like him. But then she said "Dont f*** wit my brother!" And now there's a rumor going around school that she wants to beat me up.
So i have 2 boyfriends, one that i like and one that i want to break up with, but if i do, his sister will get mad. What should i do?

2006-11-02 11:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 11:50:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just stare, I don't touch but I still get slapped.

2006-11-02 11:49:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked my mom if I have a girl voice because every body tells me that I have a girl voice, and I heard my voice before and it does sound girly, but any way she tells me that my voice sounds normal. Why is my mom lieing to me? I like her to tell me the truth not a lie.

2006-11-02 11:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by brucy 1 in Friends

I've been a long distance friend and email correspondent with a man for nearly four years after briefly meeting him in my city. Two years ago he met a woman through match.com. Although they both tried hard to make their relationship work, they were not very well suited and he chose to end it. Since then, my email has been broken into, my computer has been infiltrated by keystroke (password stealing) programs, and dangerous "backdoor rootkit" programs have invaded my system. I have done all I could to clear these up---I believe the spyware originally entered through a bogus email she sent me using his email address as it had a lot of junk html and other suspicious elements. It seems that she is wildly jealous---she has tried many ploys to get him back. My question is---what can I do to protect myself? (There have been other suspicious activities as well; one of our cars suddenly went completely dry of oil, although there were no leaks and we check the oil regularly.)

2006-11-02 11:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by aeh2323 1 in Other - Family & Relationships