Okay, this boy asked me out, and my friend said yes to him. So now we go out, but i dont exactly like him. Hes not revoltingly ugly, but if i dont really want to go out with him. My friend also went out with this boy, that she didnt like, either. She broke up with him, and then i was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend, because i already have another boyfriend that doesnt go to my school. I was gonna break up with the one at my school, but then someone heard about it, and told his sister, (which is in 8th grade) and she thinks that i was gonna break up with him just because my friend broke up with her boyfriend. But it wasnt just because of that, its cuz i dont even like him. But then she said "Dont f*** wit my brother!" And now there's a rumor going around school that she wants to beat me up.
So i have 2 boyfriends, one that i like and one that i want to break up with, but if i do, his sister will get mad. What should i do?
2006-11-02 11:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont think i can talk to his sister, she much bigger than, me and i dont think shes open to reasoning. If she calls me on it what should i say?
She said that she thinks i am "messing with his head" because i was gonna break up with him just because my friend broke up with her boyfriend. But thats not the reason.
Im planning on breaking up with him in like 3 weeks, then she cant say i did it cuz someone else did it too.
What should i say when i finally do break up with him? How should i say it, even if everything has been going fine? Please help!
2006-11-02 12:28:10 · update #1
Dump the guy you don't want to be with. it isn't fair to him or yourself to be with him just cuz his sister butts in. try talking to the sister or someone she knows who will tell her why you don't wanna be with him. but be careful she might try to fight you anyways.
2006-11-02 11:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the boy that you don't like. and if his sister tries to start trouble with you, just ask her if she really wants her brother to be with a girl who doesn't like him. you can't make yourself like a boy if those feelings just aren't there. if his sister get's mad, she'll live. anyway, this is between you and him, not you and her.
2006-11-02 20:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to stand up for yourself. Break up with him and don't allow his sister or other people to pressure you in any way.
2006-11-02 19:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kindly break up with your boyfriend that you dont like. Tell him u wanna be friends
2006-11-02 19:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing is not fun...no good outcome..yeah someone might beat u up because of that...play fair..play nice...dont have 2 boyfriends at the same time...very bad..yes very very bad....
2006-11-02 19:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth and he should understand if hes a real friend
2006-11-02 19:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by catlover309 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋