There's this girl whom I work with. I'm kinda sweet on her and I think the feeling may be mutual. She is always way more friendly to me than most. Always laughs at my jokes. Sometimes I detect she's a little nearvous around me in a cute way. She busts my B**ls in a friendly sorta way with practical jokes and stuff. I'd love to know if she really does like me or wether its just my imagination. Does anybody have any suggestions how to find out without directly asking her or getting any friends involved as I can do neither. I think when I know for sure I can start eating and sleeping properly again :) I'm 34... you'd think Id be beond this...lol
2006-11-02 11:54:40 · 9 answers · asked by shaymeyabu2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man, buddy.. you've gotten bitten by the 'love bug' but good and hard!! yeah, ya know.. 'all the world loves a lover..' right? right! You can't eat.. can't sleep, eh? (lucky girl.) SURe.. she is wild about you too! (Boy, you two are both lucky I am thinking.. wink) There is NO easy way to go about it, buddyboy.. (It's just part of the 'chase..') You 'suffer' a little while longer.. (We cannot help you here.) It's l00%up to you. You are just looking for some easy way out? (nothing exists.. sorry.. "no can do!") have fun!
2006-11-02 11:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go to the cinema or some lame sh!t like that. Seems like the two of you are potential friends if nothing else so just do the friends bullsh!t for awhile. You dont wanna freak her out or anything, DO NOT let her know how hard this lovebug thing has bitten you. Just do more friendship activites and she what happens, a little while of this and things will become clearer.
2006-11-02 12:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask her out for a drink after work or something? Or if she talks about a film, ask her to see it with you? There really is no way round asking her directly that I know of.
I have been married for 6 years and dated for many years before that, and from experience being direct is always the best approach.
2006-11-02 11:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, that's really sweet, cupid's arrow has landed! Guess your stomach kinda flips over too at the thought of her. Go on, ask her out, just something simple to start with or ask her what kind of films she likes, ask if she has seen one of the latest films out, if she says no take that as your cue to ask if she'd like to join you. Good luck
2006-11-02 12:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go grab a coffee with you - at a break or something. Or for lunch - Make it innocent - just like friends. Fine line to walk with attraction to colleagues .
2006-11-02 11:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. But, seriously, you need to take these changes in life. It is too short to be left wondering. Great things could happen!!
2006-11-02 11:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by angelalf1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 'problem' is not 'with a woman,' but it's with your Self.
Maybe you are trying to read into this situation what is not there.
If there is anything there, then allow it to build.
Sash.
2006-11-02 12:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her flowers anomynously to the work place and see how she reacts when you look over at her...if she looks at you she knows they are from you and then go from there....go on flowers is the best thing...good luck xx
2006-11-02 12:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out and stop being a wimp. :)
2006-11-02 12:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋