its like ever since i got with him as far as i could remember is that... he has always put me at the bottom.... there was alway something more important to him... like if ... i wanted to spend time with him.. and id ask.. hed chose his friends over me... its like i asked him.. if he loved me hed say yes... but then when i askd him to compare with how much.. he says something.. like... not that much.... he always tells me that i love him more than he loves me... and i honestly dont think that its fair... that im with someone that doesnt love me equally. so today i askd him... who do you love more.. his car... or me... he told me that i can leave at ne time... and that his car.. will leave when he tells it tooo... he even puts his car in front of me.. on our anniversary.. he was ont he fone more than half the time... he said that it was business... but i think that since its our anniversary.. i should at least get some sort of attention... but i didnt.. his friends alawyas come first
2006-11-02 11:55:51 · 17 answers · asked by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to find someone new. this guy doesn't sound like he cares about you at all.
2006-11-02 12:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont even put my girlfriend on my priority list. My priorities are a way of managing my life. My gf is beside me in the living of that life. Sure, I do allot of the same things that your bf does and I feel as equals, my gf can do the same as I can. And Yes she gets all pissed off when I do some things but she as well as you have to understand that I and yours are going to do what ever we want whenever we want anyway. We know what the conciquences are and are willing to accept what we have coming to us. My gf has the same choices to make and the same conciquences to take. Sounds fair to me. What do you guys think?
2006-11-02 12:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl it sounds as if he doesn't care that much any more. They say find some one who loves you more then you love them but he sounds just plain neglecting. Get a new man who will charish all they aspects of you and who really cares. You do not need him. He is not worth your time.
2006-11-02 12:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tili L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he's honest about what his priorities are. You're NOT his proirity. If you're willing to stick around anyway, it's your choice. What would I do? I would not hang around a man who treats me disrespectfully. Can't even imagine falling this low.
2006-11-02 11:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him or talk to him about the fact that family and girlfriends are always your top priority. Don't let yourself be neglected.
2006-11-02 11:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by chynna cat sunflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend puts you at the bottom of his list then he is selfish and will never change. Dump him.
2006-11-02 12:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isnt it obvious that he isnt good enough for you. If i were you i wouldnt be hanging or dating this guy, Lose him, hes bad news.There is something better out there. Iam sure
2006-11-02 11:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's not spending enough time with you, and you would like him to do things occasionaly with you, and if he doesn't, either ask him the question. "Your friends or me.", lol, my girlfriend would get mad at me if I didn't do things with her. So, in my view, he's not worthy of you. =P
2006-11-02 12:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Will C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife says dump him, hes not worth your time. There is someone out there who will treat you with respect .you have to respect yourself first.
2006-11-02 12:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by treefrog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋