We have our marriage license, but i see he's back on the dating sites the day we got our license asking women for sex and wanting to marry them.I made a profile as another woman[the only way to catch him]and it hurt like hell to see him talking to this woman [really me] saying "I have no girlfriend" and "I love you & want to marry you". He works at a church run shelter so I turned his *** in for doing this from a Christian shelter.They fired him.Now I feel guilty. He even sent pics of his dick to this woman, taken from the church shelter. Boy, the director was pissed. Did I do the right thing? I needed the truth for once & in 3 years of this I've NEVER heard the truth. Also what do you think about him contacting other women after planning our wedding???? I'm a mess.
2006-11-02 11:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by Debbie Ratliff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Better think again before tying the knot.
2006-11-02 12:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, run while the running is good. He is not ready to get married - he has not made the emotional committment and maybe never will.
You had every right to turn him in - if the porn were traced back to the shelter how would that look? What a ninny!
Don't marry this guy - he is TROUBLE.
2006-11-02 12:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some self respect and DUMP his ***- this is coming from a man by the way. This man does not love you, understand that right now, he has no respect for you and doesn't apreciate you. Don't "settle" for anything other than a man who spins your head with the interest and attention he pays you, and be prepaired to reciprocate.
2006-11-02 12:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymagic6966 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT marry this guy. He has serious problems. YOU don't want to end up later on with 3 kids and him cheating on you and you not being able to afford to leave him financially.
Why do women tolerate a jerk like this and why can't they just dump him and move on?
2006-11-02 12:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it, but i dont think things are going to change once you get married. it's good you find out these things now so that you're not wasting more of your time or money on this wedding or on him. i think you did the right thing in trying to catch him in his own act, since he obviously wasn't man enough to fess up to you personally.
i'm really sorry, and i hope you can find someone who will treat you better!
2006-11-02 12:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED? ARE YOU STUPID? I mean you are going to give your life to some sick *** retard? Yeah that will last a whole month. You sound like trash and thats the truth. Unless he is the last guy in the world......GET OUT
2006-11-02 12:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by mesosmart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would definatly call off the wedding. he's getting married he should not be on dating sites talking to other women saying he wants to marry them. and he should not be sending pics of his privates! don't marry him, if you do he will not stop not matter how much he promises.
2006-11-02 12:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just having fun b4 the marriage .When he gets married it all will be gone it will be like a Prison for ur man .So let him go loose.for 3 weeks. When Married he will be Responsible man
2006-11-02 12:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is this a joke? No girl in her right mind would marry this idiot? Break it off with him immediately. He's disgusting.
2006-11-02 12:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are your marrying this jerk? Don't you realize that this will continue to happen? If you don't realize, let me tell you. THIS WILL CONTINUE and you will divorce and shortly.
Do NOT be stupid. Call it off NOW.
2006-11-02 11:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋