her rich parents didn't even pony up a decent dowry....how should I handle this woman because I am losing it very fast! (she's also very messy and stinky sometimes)
2006-11-02 11:57:34 · 18 answers · asked by saskugd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she's not even good at 'boom boom'.....
2006-11-02 12:07:13 · update #1
thats the thing, someone always took care of everything for her..most spoiled people can't do anything on their own.
2006-11-02 12:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think back to the reason why you married this woman.
Did she complain and nag before the marriage?
Did you marry her expecting a dowry?
Was she messy and stinky before you two got married?
If she was, then you got into this knowing the way that she really is. Talk to her about the messes and her smells. Tell her that she needs to shower more and ask her to pick up after herself. Someone that has always been taken care of will find it hard to work for themselves. Help her. Show her how. Show her that she doesn't have to clean the whole house everyday. Do one room a day. Have her get a job and then this way, she can see what life is like without mommy and daddy always cleaning up after her and paying for everything. If none of this works, I am sorry and she needs to go!
2006-11-02 20:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sucks when you realize you've made a huge mistake doesn't it? Part of the problem could be your attitude. "Her rich parents didn't pony up a decent dowry"? If my daughter's husband ever said that to me I'd slap his arrogant *** back to the time before they ever met. Then I'd make sure it'd never happen. I'd pay good money to find out what her take is on oh so wonderful you! Grow up and go look for a decent attitude, oh yeah maybe find a personality while you're at it! Why not try talking to her about how she feels, if she's as disillusioned as you are, maybe getting out while the getting's good would be best for both of you. It's sometimes better to be lonely than to be miserable.
2006-11-02 20:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by ron k 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you really love this woman? You should have known these things before you married her; if you did then I am sure you guys can work this out.
Let her know how you feel and if she is not willing to compromise then you will have change your way of living. Why don't you let her make the bacon and you stay home and clean the house.
Work together and you will find a solution! Good luck!
2006-11-02 20:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Stefanie K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are such a loser, you are very lucky to have found her, and sounds like you are over reacting
who relies on a dowry these days.its a husbands responsibility to bring the income not her, she will in the future look after the kids.
sounds like you have a short fuse..hope you treat her well, all women deserve this respect, if you dont respect her then u dont respect yourself.
i hope you do things around the house, because it sounds like you are worse then her, get a cleaning lady if you have the money, but i wouldnt fight over this.
if she is stinky then spoil her with nice perfume
2006-11-03 01:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by queensuzyq2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow man you made MANY errors here. First....no ticky no laundry...in other words you should have got the Dowry BEFORE saying I do.
Second...you should have shacked up BEFORE saying I do...then you would have known she was messy AND stinky....and....I cant believe that you did not know about Boom Boom *sigh*
Third.....you should have asked US here on yahoo BEFORE you said I do!
Bad Boom Boom....*shaking head* Poor guy
2006-11-02 20:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you married her without a dowry, you got what you deserve. Now you just have to hang on an hope the rich parents die and leave everything to you wife so you can live the good life for a few weeks before she divorces your poor ***.
2006-11-02 20:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Then why did you marry this woman if she is not what you desire? You must of married her for something. I would have a long talk with her and tell her that she needs to pick up more around the house or she needs to get a job. You should also buy her some good smelling soap and perfume. Tell her how good she smells when she uses them and tell her how much it turns you on when she smells that good. Good luck!
2006-11-03 01:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would anyone marry you?
i would suggest your wife's parents would better spend their money by making their daughter a widow! there must be a hitman out there looking for some extra cash.
creep!
2006-11-06 19:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get off her lazy butt or your walkin'. That is WRONG!!! Especially the stinky bit. Is she so lazy she can't even shower. What a turn off!
2006-11-02 20:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dowry??? what planet are you from? lol
get mess and stinky too..join the crowd, be happy,
don't be a nag
2006-11-02 20:04:49 · answer #11 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋