I'm pregnant, and my bf wants to have sex all the time, but I really don't want to. I feel like he isn't happy with me anymore. What can I do to make him feel better, and to keep our relationship steady?
2006-11-02 11:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by HU4L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well you could have sex with him
2006-11-02 12:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are okay with Oral sex you could still do that for him once in a while. You could also just give him a hand job. Having said that if he is asking for sex a lot then it may be time to NICELY tell him that right now you are just very tired and uncomfortable and would like to take a rain check on the sex for tonight. Let him know that your feelings for him have not changed...that you still are in love with him but right now you just do not feel like having sex. He is a big boy...and he was "Taking care" of himself before you came a long...so for the next few months he may have to "Take matters into his own hands" so to speak.
Best of luck
2006-11-02 20:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be wanting to support you emotionally. You are going through so many changes and while having sex is probobly important it isn't something that should be more important than you. Or he may already know sex is going to tke second to taking care of a baby when the time arrives so he may be trying to make up for it now.
2006-11-02 20:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel like having sex then don't. Pregnancy can make some women very uncomfortable. Add that to being overly tired, sex is the last thing on your mind. Pregnancy is something you both got into together and something you will both have to work through. If you are open to it, try some alternatives to intercourse and he will just have to be patient.
2006-11-02 20:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a father of three kids, let me tell you this... I found my wife (at the time) extremely attractive when she was pregnant. To me, that was the sexiest that she could be. Even though she didn't always want to have sex, she suggested other things that helped. For example, she would lay naked on the bed and I would lay so our feet were touching. She would lightly touch herself so i could see and instruct me on how to pleasure myself. She would watch... and instruct... I would get off, and feel that she helped. Just a suggestion.
2006-11-02 20:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by shepherd169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having his child, he shouldnt ask for more. Surely he should understand your comfort/discomfort.
2006-11-02 20:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep sex will fix all
2006-11-02 20:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-02 20:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋