Would you, could you stay with a guy who was awsome in every way other than in bed??? Yes I am having problems..lol... I tried everything but no success... now I'm a complete head case and stuck in a cycle of... poor performance... worry... low self esteem... performance worsens... more worry.. lower self esteem.. and so on...
2006-11-02 11:51:14 · 19 answers · asked by mrbubbachowpuss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, as long as he was a wonderful man in every other way, then any other issues could be worked through together.
2006-11-02 11:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man, get a grip.. If I loved you we could work through all of that. Sex matters, but love matters more. You've got great potential, you just need to find a little more love, including for yourself. Relax, take it easy.. there are therapists who deal specifically with such issues. If I loved you, I'd be right there with you while we saw the therapist together. Because, you see, if I loved you it's not just your issue, it's my issue too. In the meantime, if the lady that loves you isn't there by your side, do yourself a tremendous favor and start seeing that therapist yourself. There is help, there is hope, and there is love somewhere waiting for you.
2006-11-02 12:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, chill out - here's a hint....
(We have a clitoris)
But to answer the other part of your question - I would stay with a good man any day of the week even if he was a dud in the sack.
These things can always be taught anyway, so it is partly your ladies fault.
2006-11-02 11:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship. Plus i believe in no sex before marrage so if you wait i promise it will work out better. ( that way you are in love and they wont care if you are bad in bed) good luck
2006-11-02 11:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all if you are this worried about your...performance...you should consult with your physician. Maybe he/she could help :)
Second, if your girlfriend really cares about you then she'll support you as you work this out. If she doesn't offer you her care/support, then she's not worth it anyway.
Good luck to ya.
2006-11-02 11:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you were an AMAZING guy every other way it'd maybe be ok. p.s. i assume ya'll have talked about it. Sometimes just good talkin about it can help. You'll both get good ideas and you'll feel more comfortable
2006-11-02 11:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of course! Because if you love him life would be great even if you could have sex. Thats what love is, it has nothing to do with sexual performance.
2006-11-02 11:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would stay with him if he was a genuinely good guy. I think that you two should work on it together. and when you have, your relationship will be even stronger for it.
2006-11-02 11:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried getting tipsy? If your inhibitions were lessened a tad, maybe you could break the cycle. Don't get sloppy drunk however, then you'll just pass out.
2006-11-02 11:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't u have to have lots of patience and try try hard and again and again its pro bally a medical condition really he may be able to get on hard but not able to perform i read some where that could be medical u should check other sites on sexual dis functions.
2006-11-02 11:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋