Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

He is loving , caring but so hesitatnt to talk sex and forget about making love....
Why sex is a taboo at least with one u got married to??
I get migraines when i am starved of any affection/sex from him. What do i do?? Sex part with him is just missing and he is not cheating on me. He is a great gut but so introvert... What do i do ? Should i forget the sex part in my life???

2006-11-01 06:40:56 · 14 answers · asked by nisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee is kind of hairy. It bothers me...I love him and I can accept him as is, and I find him attractive, etc, but I would find him even more attractive with a little shaving....How should I tell him I want him to without sounding mean or hurtful? Sometimes he can be a bit insecure of his looks and I do not want to lessen his confidence in any way.

2006-11-01 06:40:21 · 8 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Singles & Dating

She said she kissed a girl when she was in college few years ago and that she was drunk..blah..blah..blah...

I really thought she was the right girl for me but I don't want to date someone who even remotely crossed that line to lesbian world because I want a girl with good sense of values and morals. If I had consider her as a party girl then it would've been just one time thing but not someone I could fall in love with. So I dumped her before I could really get attached to her.

2006-11-01 06:39:59 · 27 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 06:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by francetta123 1 in Friends

When I'm having coffee I come in here and go to Y Answers for fun and relaxation. But, I'm getting so bored with it. Especially all the "is he cheating" questions. Then I give 'snappy' answers and that's not nice. Guess I should stick to entertaining and other more pleasant subjects, huh? And maybe stay off the coffee? Sorry to bore you with my boring question. : )

2006-11-01 06:39:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What really makes your juices flow?

2006-11-01 06:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anointed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sex crazed individual for me it was grrrreeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaattttt what about u

2006-11-01 06:38:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 06:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by meme 1 in Singles & Dating

ex is asking for joint custody of our son, 12, and son is not happy there..

2006-11-01 06:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by cndnstyle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 36 should I start looking to get married? I enjoy my life the way it is. I fish whenever I want and no one tells me what to do. I would also like to have 2 beautiful kids, I just don't want to be kepted prisoner. I would real hate to not be able to do the things I enjoyed while singal.

2006-11-01 06:36:31 · 19 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 06:36:30 · 11 answers · asked by olin1963 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am really really trying, but i cant seem to get over the fact that my ex is pregnant by another guy. she was seeing another while still acting like we had a relationship. just the fact that she was having sex with someone else fumes me to no avail. plus the fact that she lied to me. i cant even put into words how angry and seething i am. and the worst thing is , she told me online. not even to my face or a phone call. and why even tell me at all. like i wanted to know that she was pregnant by another guy!! and keeping me thinking that we had a relationship. damn, how scandelous can a person get. and whats even worse, i think i still love her. she's all happy, having a baby and im here played out like a total fool and idiot and another guy is having her child. they probably laughing at me like i am a fool or something. taking another guys woman and having a kid with her. and she let it happen. man i got played out bad. i never cheated once. why all the lies??

2006-11-01 06:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by jjrr98 1 in Singles & Dating

On a scale of 1-10 I'd give myself a 8 for my looks, for my personality I'd give myself a 10 because I'm nice(way too nice it seems), funny and outgoing.

2006-11-01 06:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was dumped and then found out it was for her to date others, and it happened right away for some guy at her work. she told me it was to be alone and not be with anyone. i feel lied to and decieved. when i found out i stopped being buddy buddy with her and even sent her stuff that i had back to her, no note, nothing. she doesn't know i know. as hurt as i am i struggle with should i call and tell her i know and how she hurt me or should i just let it go? in the relationship i was a huge support system for her and now i feel like she totally disrespected me and what we had.

2006-11-01 06:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by MARK M 1 in Singles & Dating

they take them out they give them every thing they wanted and the women treat them like dogs and they love them for that when you treat them right they run back to the one that treat them wrong its crazy i dont wanted to be like that it works for them but it says what goes around comes around but the bad girls get what they wanted and the good girl gets nothing but hurt why????????????????????????

2006-11-01 06:35:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married soon and I am not sure if you are supposed to tip them. Any ideas?

2006-11-01 06:35:38 · 15 answers · asked by prettyflowertattoo 1 in Weddings

I appreciate the responses from those of you who READ my WHOLE post.
I understand alot of you say leave if the trust isn't right: Well I have been with this man for 10 years and we have 6 children. Ages 9-2. It is kind of just hard to say "ohh, well you are untrustworthy so I am going to divorce you". This is no easy boyfriend break up matter. I have asked him to go into counseling (so has his mother) but he refuses saying our "relationship" is perfect. I can not make him. Yes, for all of you....we did agree together that he would not look at porno anymore. He said" I would not want you to look at it behind my back and I will not do it either it is wrong". Hey it is great that some of you have "open relationships". HOWEVER not everyone shares your views. I know alot of couples who both agree that somethings are not healthy for marriages like (strip clubs). I do not freak out I just ask. The only reason I go upset last night is because he went behind my back.

2006-11-01 06:35:12 · 15 answers · asked by amberrenae1979@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister knows nothing. What do I do? I don't want to jeopardize the relationship I have with Chrissy, I am her "cool aunt" who she can ask or tell anything. Help!

2006-11-01 06:35:08 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend love each other dearly. We are together everyday and every night. Problem is as heard as we love is as hard as we fight. We don't fight often but when we do it turns into an all out screaming match and sometimes my boyfriend will push me down and throw me into doors or walls and call me names. I admit sometimes I throw a punch back but its only after he's brought me that far to the point. Is our relationship unhealthy?

2006-11-01 06:33:19 · 31 answers · asked by Jaime P 2 in Singles & Dating

He has talked about it, and a few days ago, said he had a package coming that he had to get, and then said he might just wait until January (our one year anniversary), but, I am not sure. Any suggeestions if you think he is. If so why, and what are some other things I can look for, and maybe figure out, and get him to crack and give it to me!!!

2006-11-01 06:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who was talking to an ex boyfriend behind my back, but it was harmless flirting. This guy and i, we have a long history together and there were serious feelings envolved. It was quite some time ago that he and i stoppped dateing, but i am still mad she hid it from me. should i cut her a break??

2006-11-01 06:33:04 · 25 answers · asked by Jess K 1 in Friends

I work full time and my gf stays at home. It is ok that she doesnt really clean, or cook at all? I want to know what people especially women think about this. I mean I am not saying she needs to be a slave but at least do something while im at work. And when I get home she gets mad that I take a nap.

2006-11-01 06:32:33 · 6 answers · asked by Jack B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night I brought a man home who happens to be a military boy. Really cute. I know it is wrong for wanting him to come home with me. Other then him being somewhat of an arrogant a#* Hole. I stopped him in the middle of the deed and told to him go home. I was getting somewhat pissed of the fact that he was making me do all of the work to please him and he wasn't even acting at all grateful or even trying to get me all hot and bothered. So it wasn't really worth anymore of an effort. So I stopped and told him to go home. I don't want to see him again. It was more of a waisted night. Was I in the wrong?

2006-11-01 06:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

how many of you like the NAME sapphire i was just wondering because that is my name

2006-11-01 06:31:20 · 24 answers · asked by sapphire 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it harmless?

2006-11-01 06:31:16 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

What are more popular items. What would you buy or be interested in as far as home made cothing or something made for the house/car..?

2006-11-01 06:30:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am really really trying, but i cant seem to get over the fact that my ex is pregnant by another guy. she was seeing another while still acting like we had a relationship. just the fact that she was having sex with someone else fumes me to no avail. plus the fact that she lied to me. i cant even put into words how angry and seething i am. and the worst thing is , she told me online. not even to my face or a phone call. and why even tell me at all. like i wanted to know that she was pregnant by another guy!! and keeping me thinking that we had a relationship. damn, how scandelous can a person get. and whats even worse, i think i still love her. she's all happy, having a baby and im here played out like a total fool and idiot and another guy is having her child. they probably laughing at me like i am a fool or something. taking another guys woman and having a kid with her. and she let it happen. man i got played out bad. i never cheated once. where is the justice?

2006-11-01 06:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by jjrr98 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my b/f are always discussing this issues i feel its ok,he doesnt ...im interested in knowing what other ppl feel about this subject are you for or against it??? And Why? ( you better have a good explination if you're against it!!)

2006-11-01 06:30:24 · 28 answers · asked by JeN 1 in Singles & Dating

So, me and my man have been together for awhile, it's pretty serious and all that but it seams like things are falling apart. Yesterday I told him that I didn't know if our relationship was working out and he reacted ok, he was sad and all...so we spent the rest of the day together and it was like he was 100 times more attentive and considerate that he usually would be. He asked me to stay the night at his place so I did and the next morning when he was getting ready for work I told him that I thought we should try and work it out and he said, "ok, great" and he acted kind of pissed off when he left for work, he only gave me a kiss on the cheek and made our goodbye really short. I am wondering if he is ready to call it quits condidering two nights before this he didn't call at all and the next day he said he forgot cuz he went hunting with his friend, am I just being paranoid or what?

2006-11-01 06:29:52 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Singles & Dating

i feel like i shouldnt have cause now he doesnt like her ,and she was the one that hooked us up. occasionally i call her for advice so she knows things that me and him have had problems with. well one day she just for no reason threw one thing up in my face out of nowhere, and i confronted him on it and when he asked me where did this come from , i said my girlfriend was saying this, and he says she should mind her business . i feel like i shouldnt have said anything , but i feel like she shouldnt throw these things up in my face for no reason either. i mean i went to her for advice not to throw something back up in my face when things are perfectly fine with me and him and make me mad at him again for no reason. what do you think

2006-11-01 06:29:23 · 5 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Singles & Dating