i am really really trying, but i cant seem to get over the fact that my ex is pregnant by another guy. she was seeing another while still acting like we had a relationship. just the fact that she was having sex with someone else fumes me to no avail. plus the fact that she lied to me. i cant even put into words how angry and seething i am. and the worst thing is , she told me online. not even to my face or a phone call. and why even tell me at all. like i wanted to know that she was pregnant by another guy!! and keeping me thinking that we had a relationship. damn, how scandelous can a person get. and whats even worse, i think i still love her. she's all happy, having a baby and im here played out like a total fool and idiot and another guy is having her child. they probably laughing at me like i am a fool or something. taking another guys woman and having a kid with her. and she let it happen. man i got played out bad. i never cheated once. where is the justice?
2006-11-01 06:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by jjrr98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The justice lies in that she now has to deal emotionally and financially with an unexpected child.
The man might run, and she might get fat and ugly.
She might cheat again and hurt the same guy.
She might live happily ever after. At least you didn't marry her and then this happened!
Try to be positive my freind, life isn't fair, but you are better off without that skank.
2006-11-01 06:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down a little, very few good decisions are made when someone is as fired up as you seem to be. Just call her up and tell her that since she was cheating on you, you decided to get tested for STD's and that you have come up positive for HIV, thank you very much and hang up. Small amount of justice, but both her and her cheating guy will have to go get tested and worry and probably fight about it... Then let go, you do not need her or that kind of crap man, move on, there are many good and decent women out there that are looking for good and decent guys...
2006-11-01 06:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - trust me - there is no justice. You need to move on even though you feel so bad right now. You WILL find someone that doesn't hurt you and make you feel like sh*t. However - it will feel like justice when you are happy with someone new and she does to the new guy what she did to you.
2006-11-01 06:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I truly feel for you!!
Living well, is the best revenge!!! But how can you still love her????? Especially after what she did to you???
Time to move on. Many a good man has been temporarily nut-kicked, by some gutter-whore, who they once loved. Everyones been there...........
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-01 06:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having anything to do with her and move on there is someone out there for you, As Garth said" Thank god for unanswered prayers."She could of moved on and left you with child support.And still been with someone else.
2006-11-01 06:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure the signs were there, it hard move on thing happen in life, it is a new begining for you it is a better deal give your self some time
2006-11-01 06:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by mehecana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn and move on. I am sure that they are not laughing at you, they are not even thinking of you, at least he isn't. Just get on with your life.
2006-11-01 06:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋