I'm 36 should I start looking to get married? I enjoy my life the way it is. I fish whenever I want and no one tells me what to do. I would also like to have 2 beautiful kids, I just don't want to be kepted prisoner. I would real hate to not be able to do the things I enjoyed while singal.
2006-11-01 06:36:31 · 19 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r doing good, wait as long as u need to, u don't have to be tied down by what someone else thinks is a good age- u r u and u need 2 do wut is best for u and ur desires.
2006-11-01 06:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by ke ke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best age to get married is when you feel totally comfortable sharing that part of your life with that special someone. There is no magic age. For some it is in their 20's, while others it may not be until in their 30's or 40's. When you feel that you are ready to be a father and not be "living the single life" and be a husband is when you will know you are ready to get married, whatever age you are. Good Luck. Liss
2006-11-01 06:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently you are under the misconception that a marriage is a prison, when you find the right person, I don't think you will mind "doing life without parole" there are two types of a marriage,good and bad. a healthy relationship is not a sentence. Compromise is part of it, so if you don't think that you are ready to give and take, you might want to wait. Keep in mind those 2 offspring, are going to be your jailers. Your spouse, if chosen correctly, will more than likely want to escape with you.
2006-11-01 06:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by wz_infamous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then maybe marriage isn't for you. And there is nothing wrong with that. I think that with you feeling this way, if you did get married you would just be miserable because you then have to consider someone elses feelings. You can't just up and go when you get the notion. In todays day and age, you don't have to necessarily be married to have children. But if this goes against your beliefs then you are going to have to make sacrifices: Give up your bachelorhood and settle down to have kids or keep your bachelorhood and never have kids.
2006-11-01 06:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between 25 - 30.
2006-11-01 06:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by sugarfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think marriage only after you are able to support yourself without ever having to feel dependent on another.
The statement above also means to be able to do things independently.
Being married isn't being kept prisoner, that is if you marry the right "one".
Find someone you can share your hobbies and responsibilities with.
Time apart having separate hobbies is also good. However doing it together.......and wanting to be around the one you marry....well
That is truly Happiness!
2006-11-01 06:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society isn't like it used to be, I think if you want to hang out on your own, then hang out, enjoy it. You can never be sure the result of a marriage your force because you feel pressure to settle down, and you might eventually hold it against her when life changes and you can't be as free as you are now. When the time is right, she'll come along and you'll know...besides, as a guy you can wait to have kids as long as you want.
2006-11-01 06:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by docketfull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with being single what is the problem? If you want to get married, and dont want to be tied down then find a woman with the same interests. Not all women are controlling, some can be just as laid back as you!
2006-11-01 06:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! Marriage is not like prison with the right person! Find someone that has the same interest that you do, and explain to them that you need time alone sometimes! It will work out with the right spouse! Good Luck!
2006-11-01 06:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can't' rush or put an age on getting married... you have to find the right person that will understand the things you do and have no problem with it... you wont be able to do everything you do now of course because some of your time will have to be dedicated to your spouse and when you have kids most of your time should be with them anyway. marriage isnt for everyone.
2006-11-01 06:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24-28
2006-11-01 06:38:42 · answer #11 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋