We met online, fell in love, and I moved across the country to be with her. In five months we had four weeks that were not ruined by fights. Over and over she drank a lot, got angry, became abusive, then would cry and promise it would never happen again, but she broke every promise she made within a week of making it and the abuse got worse and worse. She refused to talk to anyone about the problem and always found a way to blame me. After she gut-kicked me so hard I had bladder problems for a week and threatened to cut me up in my sleep, my friends helped move me out while she was away on a trip.
She is now willing to get help to work on her abuse and anger issues. I love her still, but I don't trust her as she quit counciling before when it got tough.
Do I owe her any respect? Should I see her again or try to save a friendship in the hope that someday she'll be better? Or should I just walk away and never speak to her again as my friends advise me?
2006-11-01
05:59:26
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Celtic Rebel
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Other - Family & Relationships