Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

okay me and my wife had a wondeful life for about 5 years during the sixth year we just could not get along anymore and so she moved out of my house. we both still go to college, its tougher not that we split the incomes. the thing is we still talk some what, but all she ever wants me for is sex all the time, i usually wouldnt mind, but afterwards i feel like crap because i know its just shallow sex and we wont have what we once did. i tried to make my self not have sex with her again but i just have no self controll and she knows that and i think she uses that against me too. i feel like i need to get away but i just dont know how, its hard for me to get close to another woman mainly because i still love my ex-wife. what should i do?

2006-11-01 05:47:48 · 20 answers · asked by hardjesus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

remember getting complements from women that i was "extremely handsome" and stuff along those lines. havent heard that in awhile though. yesterday, a woman told me I looked smart and sort of looked like "harold ramis". that is not a compliment at all is it? is this common for guys to go downhill like that? when i look in the mirror i look the same to myself. same general shape. few more gray hairs.

2006-11-01 05:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Singles & Dating

a friend left a message in my 360 mailbox before deleting herself off the site. she obviously didnt realise that now shes gone i cant read the message. it says in my mailbox 1 new message but when i click on it it says message is unavailable. is there anyway that any1 knows of retreaving this msge?? did post this elsewhere but no one answered hence why here now!

2006-11-01 05:47:07 · 3 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 15 year. and there is a guy who always asking me out and I do want to go out whit him but my parents don't know them and they always want to have a talk whit him before we go out that's why I don't go out whit him it makes me feel emberasing, what can I do to do go out whit him but that my parents don't know about that.?

2006-11-01 05:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i wrote something on the bathroom stall at school about a girl i hate and then that girl found the writing. she accused me of it and of course i disgused my handwriting so that i couldnt be matched to it. Waht i didnt know is that it looked just like my best friends and now she is gunna get suspended from school because of me. i already told all the teachers it wasnt me and lied to them so if i tell now i will be in sooooo much trouble that i wont even be able to think. but the guilt is killing me! i knmow what the right thing to do is but i just cant bring myself to tell people.

2006-11-01 05:44:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know my FI and if he gets a couple of drinks in him, I don't think he can resist smashing cake on me. It's just his personality. I have tried talking to him about and he swear he'll never do it and then laughs about it. I was wondering if anyone has just seen the couple cut the cake and skip the whole feeding it to each other bit.

2006-11-01 05:43:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my bf and i have been together for a year we both have problems communicating our feelings. I can tell he really cares about me just from his actions but the only time he really tells me how he feels is after hes been drinking. He will say he loves me and im everything to him after hes drinking but never says stuff like that when hes sober. sometimes he will say cute stuff in a text or email but never in person. i confronted him about it while he was sober and he got defensive and said that i should know how he feels about me. should i believe what he says after a few drinks or is it just the alcohol talking?

2006-11-01 05:43:37 · 31 answers · asked by bob123456789 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night my husband stayed at home while i took the kids trick or treating. When I got home the food was not put up and he was sleep. I felt sorry for him, thinking he must not feel good. Something told me to check my cookies which I have never done before. Whwn I checked there was this site called my.break.com. When i went there half naked women were popping up. So I asked him if he was looking at women on the computer. he got mad first and then said yeah I looked at one picture, then felt bad and turned it off. He claims he went to the site to look at something else and happened to click the pic. It broke my heart because I never thought I would have to deal with this from him. he is normally the best hubby, alwasy spoiling me and such. I told him he hurt me and my trust. he also has issues with telling me the truth unless I found out also. This makes me wonder what else is he "doing" I do not know about? Am I overreacting or should I be concerned?

2006-11-01 05:43:31 · 38 answers · asked by amberrenae1979@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So i Have a girl I've been dating for about 9 months, we are planning on marrying, but there is one thing that is making me question her. She pretty much was raped about 6 months ago when she was drinking at this guys house (her ex for 4 years) and was pretty much raped.. It's been 6 months and I found out once she went to a bar with her friends and he was there, she was drinking again, and arrived at her apartment the same time i did, she didn't know I was there and I saw her yelling at him to leave her alone, so that kind of reassured me that it was all good, but she she would've had to move a state away if she hadn't borrowed some money from him a couple weeks ago.. But I noticed hes been calling her twice a day, she's answered, he's sending her text messages, and I told her last night besides the money stop talking to him. She couldn't say she would and we talked about it for a couple hours. should I just tell her to stop talking to him or I'll leave her? Or what should I do?

2006-11-01 05:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Singles & Dating

I am new at my school and the first couple of days, this same guy named Travis kept talking to me, he was really cute and sweet to, i thought he was attracted to me and i started to really like him but then i seen him with his girlfriend, and he saw me look at him with her and he tried to hide behind some people, and i still think that he liked me at least a little. so i guess my real question is, can i guy love two people at once, i mean really love them

2006-11-01 05:42:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this gut i like but he has no idea who i am and im not the coolest or best lookin girl at school but how do i get us talking because im really crushing on him i need help!!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 05:42:48 · 3 answers · asked by ec_card_10 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 05:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by David R 1 in Friends

A cool girl that is easy to talk to && have fun with

OR

A hot girl that is always looking good, but not very interesting

????

2006-11-01 05:42:07 · 34 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

elderly people during the day? My grandmother is taking care of my grandfather who has parkinsons diesease and she is just exhausted. She wants him to go somewere for about 5 hours a few times a week so she can get a break. Everyone in the family works or has children, we help out a little, but she wants a few hours at a time. He can't even pull zippers. Is there such a place? Like a elderly daycare? I'm in NY.

2006-11-01 05:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by PegBundyWannabe 5 in Family

2006-11-01 05:40:01 · 32 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

write back

2006-11-01 05:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by countryboy23johndeer 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I went to a car dealer a a few days before I got enaged. He was buying his parents a brand new car when they aready had a car. The car dealer thought I was his wife but my fiance said that I was a good friend. Him introducing me as a good friend to the car dealer bothered me. So I discussed it with my fiance and he said the car dealer doesn't need to know his personal life. A acouple of days later he went to the car dealer again without me & my fiance and him have been talking about me. Because my fiance told me so. Now when he goes to get oil change or a free car wash there he doesn't go with me. When we were spending time together one day he needed to see the car dealer so he dropped me off at my house & picked me up after he was done. When I call him while he is working he sometimes doesn't say that he loves me. He just talks to me like he would talk to casual friend. But when we are alone he is very lovey dovey. I am Indian he is white. Is he ashamed of my race?

2006-11-01 05:39:20 · 29 answers · asked by Hot C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and why do you think that is?

2006-11-01 05:39:09 · 22 answers · asked by Ant O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you could speak other laguages aswell , for picking up girls and what other language can u speak

2006-11-01 05:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister asked a friend of hers to go out with me and she said yes.I love the girl but I have the feelings that this girl would be thinking that if not of my sister I would not have muster the courage to approach her,and this make me uncomfortable.How do I start such a relationship?

2006-11-01 05:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by isidoreoe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I help with the dishes, cooking, cleaning and laundry that sort of thing. I do it so my wife isn't so tired and it also shows how much I love and appreciate her. We've been having sex more often and more intensely. Am I wrong in seeing a direct relationship between the two?

2006-11-01 05:38:57 · 28 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS, 2 KIDS should i confront him

2006-11-01 05:38:44 · 28 answers · asked by SouthernBelle504 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no idea
what i should do?

2006-11-01 05:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by Nessa 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello to everyone, Im looking for Nice friends who like to talk, to listen, to joke etc. I feel very lonely sometimes. Im 23 years old.

2006-11-01 05:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 05:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone I've gone on a few dates with in the last week, beautiful, nice etc... I dig her. Texted me " What exactly are you looking for ? "

I'm hung over from Halloween festivities, someone give me a charming & witty answer, my brains not functioning.

2006-11-01 05:37:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love this girl and i got into a bad mood with some of my friends so i insulted her uncontrolably i also had a fight with one of her best friends ( who is also one of mine) she started to hate me and i got dumped the next day, when i did i said 'thats a relief' as another of her friends pissed me off and i couldn't do anything about it. She got the wrong message of what i said and she and her friend hate me. It's been a day since but she keeps looking at me briefly and turning away. I want to apoligize but all her friends kick and punch me when i get up to her. What should i do??? oh yes i am just 13 in high skool...

2006-11-01 05:37:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess its traditional to have the wedding where the bride's family is. My family really wants me to get married in Chicago.

But really. NYC is the BEST city. It is guaranteed to be more expensive than Chicago, and money IS an issue, but won't it be way more convenient for me to plan it in the same place where I live?

2006-11-01 05:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by sjbchapman 2 in Weddings

I recently met my teacher and she has 2 small very nice daughters 3 & 5. I have met them only a few times and the 3 yr old was extremely shy, why is it so, how come grown ups are not shy but young children are extremely shy meeting new people or those whom they meet infrequently?

2006-11-01 05:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it so important that we have something or somebody by our side?

2006-11-01 05:35:09 · 9 answers · asked by shy_grn_eyed_blnd 2 in Marriage & Divorce