so i told my boyfriend that it's a slight chance that im pregnant. yeah he was happy but im not cuz im not ready. i already have a beautiful child that is 3 yrs old and im only 17. yeah so ******* what i have no shame of me being a young mother but babies do cost money and i want to finsh school and go to collage. so what should i do
2006-11-01 06:14:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try using ******* birth control. your life is not about you any more, its about the child you already have and maybe now the one you are having. no one can tell you to keep your kid, and there is no right answer. grow up yo. look at everything in your question. everything started with 'i' its not about you anymore. ewe
2006-11-01 06:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by joo_0420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right. It isn't fair to bring a baby into the world if you don't want it, and if you aren't ready for it. If you can't give it a good life, maybe you should put it up for adoption or something. I think it's kind of sick to be 17 with a 3 year old child and be pregnant with a second, but that's beside the point. Children shouldn't have children. I'm 18, and I would never want a child. I don't plan on having my first one until I'm in my 20s at least. My mom said if you wait until you're ready to have a child, you'll never have one because you'll never be ready. No one here can tell you what to do, we don't know you. You might be mature enough for a baby, but you might not be. If your relationship with your boyfriend isn't a serious commited one then it's probably not a good idea to go through with it, because if you have a baby to someone, they're in your life forever... it's more of a commitment than marriage it seems.
2006-11-01 14:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you know you are not ready for another child. Have you told your bf how you feel? If not you really should have a convo about it with him. Whatever you decide he should support you, if not he is being selfish and not looking at the big picture.
Also, if you are not ready for another child you should be on birth control lady!
2006-11-01 14:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by a_rose7073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what you can do is get homeschooling, put him on day care and go to study. What happened 2 the dad? If he has a dad well put him 2 take care of him. Or you could leave it with your family or close friends you trust.
2006-11-01 14:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by clau_kool_lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice birth control.........
2006-11-01 14:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋