Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My girlfriend and I are both 13 years old. We have been going out for about 2 months and Have hugged many times. I really want to kiss her. I know she would like it if we did. But I'm not sure if she is ready to start the kiss. I really want to get to the next step. I'm pretty sure we're capable of it, because on the phone, we have gotten to the point of us talking about her underwear. I need advice on how to take our relationship to the kissing stage. Neither of us have ever kissed the opposite sex.

2006-10-30 09:33:08 · 28 answers · asked by Nick C 2 in Singles & Dating

I was n a relationship with my fiance for approx 1yr and a half. i've been knowing him since 1998. He is in prison and was soon to come home in december. He stop writing me about 3 months ago. I felt something was wrong so i did a little investigating myself. I found out he was sleeping around and had started a relationship with a female guard. Once at visitation he would not look or touch me. I later found out it was because the guard he was ******* was there watching him. I got up set and turned both them in. I did it only after i found out she had been keeping my letters i wrote him. He has been moved to the max unit and his date has been changed for him to come home. I have been there for this guy through thick and thin not only him but his family too, they all treated me like ****. His mom knew about the situation too. He wrote me the other day and called me all kinds of bitches and he said that he still have the guard ridin heavy by his side. he threw a lot of my past in my face

2006-10-30 09:32:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I like this guy who is my friend.I'm not sure on how to make any moves,that express effection.
We went on safe dates like,Fright Fest at six flags with my family,and tommarow he's helping me take my brother trick or treating,I also am sending him acandy gram.But the candy gram under from is the word secret.
So how do I make a move on him thats excepted and please keep it PG!! thanks

FYI:We hug alot and he smiles at me alot too.
Please explain that to me to.

2006-10-30 09:32:45 · 2 answers · asked by candy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 09:32:21 · 31 answers · asked by julie327495 1 in Singles & Dating

tonite, im going to a party thing and my friend and i are gonna text our mutual guy friend that we don't know that well...anyway he asked her if she wanted to 'chill sometime' and we think he's totally into her. the thing is, he's older so she doesn't want to meet him alone, and i don't wanna b a third wheel, so i want him to bring a single friend. what should we text him? what would sound...not weird?

btw we were gonna c if he wanted to go to the mall saturday.

2006-10-30 09:31:51 · 4 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

I want more foreplay but i dont want to hurt my man's feelings... how do i show him with out coming out and saying it

2006-10-30 09:30:56 · 2 answers · asked by Ava_Sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i love my first love still and im pretty sure hes not the guy for me but i love him so muchs its been two years and where still kind of trying to keep our flame burning but i recently told him i dont want to be his friend anymore and now i think i miss it too much idk im all cofused right now how do you know when its time to let go and how do you be strong enough to let go if you need to?

2006-10-30 09:30:44 · 3 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating

His friend likes me but he doesn't!!!(his friend is kinda kute but i don't no should I use him to make the other guy jealous??????)

Please tell me!!!!

2006-10-30 09:30:31 · 14 answers · asked by caitlyn[[confessions]] 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 09:30:30 · 19 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Thank you for all you responses - just to answer some of your queries in return - my wife dose not have any illness or suffered any trauma - god forbid, i have never laid a finger on her or even raised my voice to her - as i said before i am 6'2 Martial Arts instructor and she is petite. she is the only woman i have ever loved - sex has never been great or a priority but i find it strange not to get any. i have talked to her about this and she says she is not in the mood, too tired or that i dont try at the right time - i have tried all hours of the day and night - i dont pester her what so ever. been with her for 15 years - i have good sex drive - we have not made love more than 2 times a month ever. i know if i talk with her again i will get the same response - what shall i do other than keep feeling the way i am - dont know how much longer i can stay strong - would never leave her though no matter what!

2006-10-30 09:30:05 · 15 answers · asked by Jo J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been with my girlfriend for 9 months, I love you so much and truly believe she is my one and she believes that also. I lied to her over something stupid in a few months. i said i was going somewhere, where i ended up going out with the guys. She doesnt trust me now for anything and I think she is about to break things apart with us cause she says she loves me, but she cant trust me 100 percent. Do you have any suggestions what to say or anything?? I cant lose her, she means so much to me and we are planning a future together....

2006-10-30 09:29:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since my divorce I haven't been attending family functions on my dad's side (6 years ago). Right after I left my ex, I hadn't told anyone but my mom told my aunt the night I went to visit my dying grandfather. The aunt asked me questions about my ex (what was I cooking for him, what was he doing tonight) in front of my grandfather. I told the truth but did not let on that we were seperating because my grandfather had less than a week and didn't want him to worry. After her questions, my aunt made me leave the room (can't remember the reason) and when the door opened again I saw my grandfather's face. She had told him. He died the next day.

The rest of the family acted funny around me at family gatherings afterwards & I felt like they were all gossiping. Next weekend is my brother's wedding shower. I know they will want to come see my house since it is a few miles away--what should I do? Be polite and give in or stand firm and if they don't like it, time to alienate?

2006-10-30 09:29:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do i feel better about myself when i break up with my boyfriend that has done nothing wrong. why does this make me feel releif

2006-10-30 09:29:34 · 4 answers · asked by babyvb 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 09:29:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got access to this person he hasn't deleted his account been doing this for over a year and he has not acknowledged my emails, I have invited him to email me, got seperate email account for this purpose, he didn't respond, he didn't say go away either, to me I feel that I am perstering him but he hasn't called the cops yet, he still has his account he has even signed in i have even said i think that i'm turning into a stalker. he knows that i find him fascinating and it is by pure ignorance how i found him in the first place, even so i sent him this message today and now at home thinking about it and wondered at what time should i stop pestering him, if he don't talk, how will? sometimes i think that he doesn't get the messages i leave for him but then something happens and it makes my overactive imagination run riot, then i think i read too much into things and try to give it a miss but like he's fascinating. what should i do? tried to give up twice.

2006-10-30 09:29:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im with som1 new now who is great. but my ex is always popping up in the background peeing me off.. he treated me very very bad.. n i left him. but coz he hurt me n my son so much n when we left we left with nothing... i feel so angry at times n want to get back at him somehow .... just to hurt him somwhat back ... he even made my name mud after id left with every1 who new me... do i go n get revenge or just put it behind me ? coz im finding it hard to forget... please help me sort this so i can move on with my new guy in peace c x

2006-10-30 09:28:55 · 31 answers · asked by cathrin j 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well there is this guy, lets call him Jeremy and he is my best friend's(lets call her Brittany's) ex-boyfriend. He dumped her a couple of years ago over something very stupid and people still tease her about it so she is not COMPLETLY over it. This year I have 2nd period with Jeremy and I have to say, that he has definaltly grown up over the summer. He is really easy to talk to, has gorgeous crystal blue eyes,is tall, and has a ka zillion freckles all over his face. I know he had a crush on me earlier on in the year and i am not sure if that is still true, but now really like him. The only problem is that he is Britanys ex. And it is impossible for Brittany to be friends with her ex's. For her, once her relationship ends, they are enimies for life. And it's not like I could just ditch Brittany, i mean we have been friends since the 5th grade, and she knows me better than anyone, but I don't want to miss out on a great relationship, so what should I do??

2006-10-30 09:28:31 · 7 answers · asked by Lydia - Lou 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know this is going to sound weird but the guy I'm looking for (Sean E. Laubacker) was found dead on March 1, 2003. He was found dead in the snow and there was an article in the paper about it on March 2, 2003.

My uncle was good friends with Sean and I kinda was friends with him too. I was just wondering if anyone that knew him, could email me a picture of him.

I'm putting together a special scrapbook together and I need a picture to glue under his name. I would really appreciate it if anyone that has a picture of him could email it to sweetthang16_2004@yahoo.com

Thanks so much.

2006-10-30 09:27:11 · 1 answers · asked by sweetthang16_2004 2 in Family

my boygriend and i have been happily together for pretty much a week (tomorrow marks it), but on friday at a game i made out with a guy i amde out with earlier this year. then on saturday i took smoe kids mp3 player from him and told him he wouldnt get it back unless he kissed me. hi di and now i feel bad.

however i told my boyfriend today and he said he was ok with it and that he's not mad....but i'm not sure if he's telling me the truth(he's lied to me once already). i just wanted a kiss and he wasnt at the game or else he would have been the one i kissed!!!

2006-10-30 09:26:59 · 22 answers · asked by (((uniquely.me))) 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom and my step dad owed money from me in huge amount.
Its been 8 months and everytime when I ask them, they always said they don't have any money yet.
They promised to return the money on april (they borrowed money on march).
They live out of country.
And they've been traveling twice since then, to western europe and to Asia.
I asked them, if they don't have money why they travelling so much?, they always said that they got it free (gift etc).
What should I do? my husband doesn't like since they always making excuses everytime I ask the money.
Since the money is pretty huge amount, I need the money though.

2006-10-30 09:26:37 · 5 answers · asked by booboobooboobooobooo 3 in Family

guys only! please

i liked this guy and he lead me on and then one day he left and said he wanted nothing to do with me? y is it that guys do that?

this hasn't been the frist time it happened to me!

2006-10-30 09:26:26 · 12 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Singles & Dating

ok guys flirt with me i guess like i see guys looking at me and then like this is what i dont understand like sometimes they like hit me not what ur thinking and then some say i look nice and others are sick they say werid things to me like to day i bent down to get my water bottle and this guys was like being gay about and he was like u better finish i was like wtf anyway

2006-10-30 09:25:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever my boyfriend makes love to me he likes to stay inside me even after he's *** and then he keeps talking to me. why does he do that? i don't wanna tell him not to do it cuz it may upset him!! please tell me why some men do this?

2006-10-30 09:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what could happen that would throw the whole thing in the dumper...anything specific ever happened to you that turned an erotic hot opportunity into a downer!!

2006-10-30 09:25:20 · 30 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend James* has gotten back together with his girlfriend Weogufka* for the 3rd time! She broke his heart and he said to me that he wasn't going to get back with her! A few months later he did! After she cheated on him and everything he still took her back! The second time they got together she came to him and started to flirt with him. Him and Weogufka* were back together acording to him. Then a few weeks later she says to him that they were only friends! Now about 4 months later she approaches him again and flirts with him yet again! He again gets back with her! It's crazy! What do you think of this situation? Do you think the 3rd times the charm? Let me know what you have to say!

2006-10-30 09:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Brodie Bruce 5 in Singles & Dating

me my mum and younger brother moved to spain 5 yrs ago and my older sister and her daughter lives in england, weve made trips back to see them almost every yr but she hasnt come out to see us scince we moved, so we all miss my niece alot and dont get much contact with her even though we pretty much took care of her scince she was a baby. it not a money issue either as weve offered to pay for them both several times and flights are cheap, shes also had other holidays in this time and chose not to visit us here for a holiday. weve had lots of rows over this, as my mum hardly gets to see her grandchild, whos right? should we bother with her?

2006-10-30 09:25:15 · 5 answers · asked by luci 1 in Family

Now adays girls are all money minded!! only after money!!! if u have money a bike or a car.. they'll be with you..most of the girls are like that!!! not one or two!! trust me!! u'll never get a gurl who loves u for ur true heart n love!! its kinda game for them.. today me tomorrow another guy who has 100rs extra dayafter tomorrow a couple of thousands....here it goes on!!! n in this comotion!!iam a guy who has no money nor do i have any looks!! iam dark and girls hate me to the core.. my time pass is rapping.. aim in the rap club..n i sing n play d guitar!! that's it.

2006-10-30 09:24:45 · 2 answers · asked by sylvester_rose2002 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of over a year said "I love you Vanessa" after we had sex. Vanessa is his ex's name. Don't know how I should have reacted but it didn't sit well with me. I've never felt jealous of her, still don't. I am just curious if thats what he really feels or if it was just a habbit because he was with her for 13 years and half asleep. She left him and their 3 kids to pusue a gay lifestyle, she now dresses like a man.

2006-10-30 09:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by n v 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love w/ my boyfriend and have been ever since i 1st met him 3 weeks ago but just this past weekend he started changing. he didnt call as much at night, he always had an excuse for not comin over and then when he saw me he acted normal.i just had cheerleading parctice and he was supossed 2 pick me up but he never showed up so i had 2 call my mom 2 come get me.he was supossed 2 come over every night the whole weekend but he kept on comin up w/ excuses.my mom thinks he is cheatin on me because he is almost 18 and he doesnt wanna b stuck w/ a 14 year old then.what should i do???

2006-10-30 09:24:15 · 10 answers · asked by smithluver_1317 1 in Singles & Dating

My GF and I are having a "rocky" time at the moment. I want to respark our relationship so I am plannign on taking her for a little mini-vacation in Feb. We live in the central Valley in California (Sacramento). And I have two choices, the ocean or the mountains.
Guys - Where would you prefer to take a GF for vacation?
Girls - Where would you rahter go for a surprise vacation?
Options - Lake Tahoe, Reno, San Fransisco, Monterey, Santa Cruz, Bodega Bay.
Any other sugestions on places would be appreciated.

2006-10-30 09:24:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating