i got access to this person he hasn't deleted his account been doing this for over a year and he has not acknowledged my emails, I have invited him to email me, got seperate email account for this purpose, he didn't respond, he didn't say go away either, to me I feel that I am perstering him but he hasn't called the cops yet, he still has his account he has even signed in i have even said i think that i'm turning into a stalker. he knows that i find him fascinating and it is by pure ignorance how i found him in the first place, even so i sent him this message today and now at home thinking about it and wondered at what time should i stop pestering him, if he don't talk, how will? sometimes i think that he doesn't get the messages i leave for him but then something happens and it makes my overactive imagination run riot, then i think i read too much into things and try to give it a miss but like he's fascinating. what should i do? tried to give up twice.
2006-10-30
09:29:09
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My rule is that if someone doesn't answer within a few days they are more than likely not interested. I would call it a day at that point.
2006-10-30 09:39:21
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answered by bovie 4
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you seriously need to get a grip and fast. you know this is pestering and if he wanted contact he would of done just that. your lucky he hasn't called the police. get out and get some kind of life cos your clearly lacking one, dont mean that nasty but if you fill your time with other things the need to contact this person will decline and you can move on, no one likes a stalker even if it is by email, he's probably noting where the emails come from and just deleting them without reading them or he's reading them and pitying you. you really want that? cos i wouldn't. seriously get a grip and leave the man alone.
2006-10-30 09:49:25
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answered by Anonymous
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well if you have not got the message by now you must be living in cloud cuckoo land,
it's blatantly obvious that he is not interested in you, and yes you are acting lika a stalker, leave the poor guy alone, have you ever thought that he might have a partner, or even be married, how would you feel if some woman kept sending messages to your man?
accept it, it is time you stopped doing this and got a life of your own, although you should not have been doing this anyway, let alone for over a year!!!
2006-10-30 11:10:32
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answered by mythmagicdragon 4
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He probably noted your email as spam or junk and it's probably filtered out.
You are kind of obsessive. Either your parents are giving you quality love or you are bored. Figure out what makes you happy besides stalking people and put your energy into that. If necessary look into some alternative healing like Emotional Freedom Technique and The sedona Method (look for cheap used book with good reviews on Amazon) to help release some of this crazy energy you have.
2006-10-30 09:33:03
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answered by FeeFee le Mew 2
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Hmmm.... I've been there before in both respects, there could be alot of reasons but i'm guessing if he wanted to talk/mail you he would,simple! and anyway you are im sure worthy of an answer and there ARE plenty more fascinating people out there.Don't go chasing after something that lowers you will...
2006-10-30 10:10:18
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answered by sinead m 1
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STOP! stalking this person. When a person ignore u that means they don't want to be bother ok
So leave well enough alone or ur *** will be in JAIL!
2006-10-30 09:35:44
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answered by inneedofhelp 2
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Please stop and think... You do not know this person and he is NOT interested. He would have contacted you if he was. You want a relationship/friendship. There are plenty of good people who will be interested in you. Please stop looking for something that cannot be it is unhealthy for your well being. Look for someone who will value you be patient it WILL happen
2006-10-30 09:34:04
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answered by Chrissie B 2
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For heaven's sake, leave him alone! It's about a year past the time when you should have stopped.
2006-10-30 09:32:01
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answered by Older&Wiser 5
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H-e-l-l-o-o-o-o, you need to stop it right now, especially if yo feel like you are pestering him. May be you are!
2006-10-30 09:38:05
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answered by vanityspice 3
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Faliure to email back is the international sign for ... " Im not interested ... "
Sorry ,,,, move on ....
2006-10-30 09:32:22
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answered by blogmart 2
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