Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My Mother-in-law is causing a great deal within my family and with the holidays coming up I know the stress time is really coming. Here are my issues with her:
1)she pops pills to goto sleep & to wake up-because of this her memory is shot. She can't remember anything (even her sons birthday)
2)she refuses to change our son (her ONLY Grandchild)-she has insisted on babysitting him but will not change him
3)she chooses to ignore us whenever we say anything. (ex. - she wanted to give our son a sucker, he had a sore in his mouth that the doctor told us no sweets, we told her numerous times "NO" but she still gave the boy the sucker)
4)she expects us to be at her every beck & call-no matter where we are we are expected to race home so she can spend her monthly 10 minute visit with us. If we don't race home she does nothing but guilt trip my husband making life not fun.
I could go on for days but I won't. Any suggestions on how to handle her? We've talked to her but it doesn't help

2006-10-30 10:14:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have 3 friends...and one of them told 2 friends who she likes. But didnt tell me. i feel so left out. I ignore her completely. Why is she acting like a ***** and told everyone who i like. Would you still be friends with her?

2006-10-30 10:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by killiana 2 in Friends

ok theres this guy and we r really good friends and i recently came out and told my bff that i liked him and then she told him! which was ok b\c he likes me back and so we started hanging out just the two of us and its been like that for weeks so what do i do ... i know he wants to ask me out b/c all of his friends say that he does and that he only talks about me but whats holding him back?

2006-10-30 10:12:52 · 16 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

To put this in better perspective, I am 38 weeks pregnant, working, already have a five year old daughter, and I think he may be cheating on me. I am extremely busy but am willing to do anything to make this marriage work. Any suggestions??

2006-10-30 10:12:14 · 24 answers · asked by Hurray for the ANGELS! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought I was ready but, I miss him. It's better for us to be apart because we don't get along any more. But, I hurt's more than I thought it would, not to be able to talk to them anymore like we use to.

2006-10-30 10:11:56 · 19 answers · asked by melly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even though you were in love with him but knoqwing they could never be yours would you still go out with them or would you find someone else...

2006-10-30 10:11:43 · 11 answers · asked by flipper 1 in Singles & Dating

today ive been invited to a halloween party but its gonna be my first and my friends have been invited to many but im in seventh grade and some of my friend done drugs and im afraid of peer presure what should i do i want to go?

2006-10-30 10:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Friends

A little discussion with my girlfriends!
If a boy gets kicked many times in his balls, will his balls get more oval or more spherical?
If I hit them from below will they get more spherical with each kick??

And don’t worry I only did that once, and I HAD to do it because he was thinking about me while masturbating. I must admit it was hilarious to see his reaction and it was kinda sexy, but I only kick them if they deserve it. :-)

And no stupid answers or else you boys will be on the ground for 20 minutes!!!

2006-10-30 10:11:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ideas to make my boyfriend think I'm the greatest.

2006-10-30 10:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by brystal 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 10:09:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 10:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Friends

my sister lied about her grade in algebra 2 and now that grades have come, my mom saw the "C+" on the report card and went nuts. she beat my sister and still is, saying that she wontpay for her college and wont let her out of the house and she's grounded for 6 months and i know this is true because my mom never chnages her mind about anything.,.,.,,

im scared...wat do i do??!!!!!!

2006-10-30 10:06:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you really fall out of love?or if something else comes along and intrigues you decide to go for that? and why do people do this so quickly without even thinking it through?

2006-10-30 10:06:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was involved with this guy, and he pissed me off. Really bad. he always uses profanity toward me when he gets mad, but he's never called me a Bitc-. The other night , I called him one. I know it shocked him because I've never done that before. Should I call and apologize....even though he's talked REALLY bad to me in the past?

2006-10-30 10:05:54 · 30 answers · asked by aimjbtnh3 1 in Singles & Dating

do you feel lucky? well do you? in life that is.....

2006-10-30 10:05:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 27 and my wife 30 have been married for almost 8 yrs. We have 2 boys of ages 5 and 2. Not everynight but I would say 3-4 times a week I get horny and wanna have "sex". Insult to injury is that I have to ask for it and she tries to ration it out like "food to a hostage". I get plenty of attention from other females on my job and out and about but I dont want to result to cheating. I want sex with my wife. Spontaneous sex w/ no pre-approval needed. This has been going on for I would say the past 3 yrs. Every time we argue this and I end up pissed off and drunk in the end. My wife would be a perfect ten if she didnt monopolize the poo-tang. She is japanese and I am black. Could there be a cultural difference? Is it common for Japanese women to loose interest in sex after a few years of marriage? I thought it may have been how I was doing it but not to brag, I doubt that. I stay in the gym and Im like the President in the bed, I "stay the course".

2006-10-30 10:05:45 · 28 answers · asked by Kokusai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you prefere your girlfriend to make you sweets or dinner food.
which do you like better.
sweets, pastries and breakfast or soup, shrimp and other dinner foods?

2006-10-30 10:05:38 · 7 answers · asked by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 in Singles & Dating

the kid i like is named skylar and i talked to him!i turned around to him and he said turn around and i said no way! and he said shut up but in a joking kinda way like a best friend would say to you.do you think he likes me back?

2006-10-30 10:05:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have women admirers but the women i like are never interested.

2006-10-30 10:05:04 · 13 answers · asked by Alfred E. Newman 6 in Singles & Dating

me and my exgirl friend broke up about 2 weeks ago after 4 years because she started hanging out with this guy who she knew liked her. (with others as well read my other questions) Now I went out with my cousin and his friends (who are girls) and one of them thinks im really hot and cool to hang out with somehow my ex found out and she is pissed and called me and said that she wants to get back and that she would stop yada yada should I believe her.

2006-10-30 10:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my phone number which is a permenantly withheld number rang my partners exs home supposedly at 1am i was in bed sleeping no one else in the house only my partner who says he didnt ring the number.my number is suppose to have showed up on her phone oh and by the way i cant ring out on my phone. can anyone explain how this happened.i am being accused of doing it. i most certainly didnt. apparently she gets silent phone calls which im accused of as well.To be quite honest I wouldnt ring her if she was the only person left on the planet. I was worried that my partner had had an accident coming home from her house one night and i rang her because i couldnt get him when he had already rang me and told me he was on his way home.She was extremly RUDE to me and slamed down the phone on me.She knew where he was and knew i was worried sick about him.I told him that she would be the last person that i would ring about him ever again.but this business about the phone call really takes the biscuit

2006-10-30 10:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The first time I met her, she side tracked from business to ask personal questions about my kids, wrote out directions to get me back to the highway, and offered me a beverage for the ride home. I have never had this happen when I'm out looking at a job. On a follow up call she apologized for "prying" about the kids, and we ended up talking a lot about life issues, rather than business. In my life, by mistake, I married and divorced a friend, but not ever having a real (true) loving relationship, I do not know how they ever really start. What are your thoughts on how two hearts actually find each other. Do you think that her inner being (her heart) is interested in me? I hope so, but I do not want to drive myself crazy with hope, as I have already had to deal with heartache and it is very draining to say the least. So your honest thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks.

2006-10-30 10:03:50 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

What turns you on?

ex. eyes, hair, body

2006-10-30 10:02:32 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 10:02:17 · 10 answers · asked by laurenruthh. 1 in Singles & Dating

Been married for 6 years. Lived with in laws for nearly 5 of them. Have 3 small children. Hubby refuses to move out, says "we can't make it on our own". Mother in law is a controlling wicked old bitty. She talks down to the kids. He talks down to me. I told him I couldn't take it anymore and for the last week he has been on his best behavior. I am sure it is only temporary, it's a cycle. Emotional abuse has turned this 41 yr old women into a self concious self doubting insecure woman. I don't want my kids to grow up with her and I don't want them to see how he talks to me and thinks it's okay. Now my question. Stay in the house and put up with it? Apply for assistance and get out asap? Pack the kids and leave the state to avoid the ugly outcome when I do go? I know I need to leave, just not sure how or when and if I have the guts. help.

2006-10-30 10:02:15 · 22 answers · asked by Catherine M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there really just one person who is made for the other out there.........or are there several lifelong compatible mates for each person.......it is just our responsibility to choose one person and be committed to them for the rest of our lives? I am not questioning my marriage......trust me i am fighting hard to keep mine right now.......but i was just wondering what your theory is...........this may also be a result of a weeks use of pain meds too......who knows.....but anyway....wot do you think?

2006-10-30 10:02:08 · 12 answers · asked by Carolina Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 10:01:34 · 9 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 10:01:20 · 10 answers · asked by Babygirl101 1 in Friends

2006-10-30 10:01:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I still do not know what I want to do with my life..nothing really interests me..I am doing good in school now but I need to pick a major and I don't know what I want to do and I am 21.

2006-10-30 10:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Singles & Dating