today ive been invited to a halloween party but its gonna be my first and my friends have been invited to many but im in seventh grade and some of my friend done drugs and im afraid of peer presure what should i do i want to go?
2006-10-30 10:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you feel that you cannot stand up and say no to the drugs if you are offered then don't go to the party.. If you want some advise on how to say no go to
http://www.goodcharacter.com/BCBC/SayingNo.html
There are some ways to say no that wont make it so difficult your friends will respect you if you stay firm with them and it may help them say no too they may feel just like you.
Saying "no" to your friends can be very hard sometimes. You may be afraid of what they'll think of you if you don't go along with them. Here is a good way to say "no" and still be cool.
1. Say what the problem is (that's mean, or, that's illegal, etc.).
2. Say what the consequences are.
3. Suggest something to do instead.
4. If your friends insist on doing it anyway, leave. But leave the door open for them to change their minds and join you.
Sometimes you can make it easier on yourself by preparing in advance for a possible pressure situation. Here are some things you can do ahead of time.
• Think ahead and try to anticipate possible problems.
• Decide in advance what you intend to do.
• Think of some good ways to handle the situation if it arises, or some good ways to avoid the situation altogether.
2006-10-30 10:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by shawn_mauldin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go... have fun. Its a Halloween party!!
Drugs.... you can't avoid them. Decide what u want t o do.
And be yourself. Try. Dont try. But do what feels right. There will always be peopel like the REAL YOU. NO need to hand with peeps that pressur u.
2006-10-30 18:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by magnet4trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide not to go doing drugs is stupid if you fall for that peer pressure stuff then you'll be on drugs most likely for the rest of your life and you'll regret it besides if they are really are your friends then you should get them to stop doing drugs
2006-10-30 18:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by pnoybaler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well rember u have to rember that ur parents has trusted u to go so u need to act as if u see them when the drugs r handed out drugs dont help the party they only help the guys to get in to ur panties say no to drugs i have faith in u that u will do the right thing i will be praying for u
2006-10-30 18:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in 7th too, dont go, trust me, if these kids are like the kids im my school ur b pressured, n im sure u'll say no, but thn they'll make fun of u. I hav seen it happen
2006-10-30 18:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest u r dum if u don't know the answer to this question. actually u do know but u r afraid that ur friends won't accept u . duh they r obviously not true friends anyway. and why do u hang out with high people. they do nothing but bring u down. and if they r just smoking cigarettes they r just promoting cancer.
2006-10-30 18:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by leelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. If they ask why you didn't go, say you got in trouble or mom wouldn't let you go. Simple rule of thumb for life: if you don't feel comfortable with something, don't do it.
2006-10-30 18:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by air_of_truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no. It's that simple, you don't have to do what you don't want to do. Let them look stupid, doesn't mean you have to.
2006-10-30 18:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by xobigstarxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go, you sound to confused, you'll just end up doing it
2006-10-30 18:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friend done grugs i would not go.
2006-10-30 18:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by hannah montana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋