I was involved with this guy, and he pissed me off. Really bad. he always uses profanity toward me when he gets mad, but he's never called me a Bitc-. The other night , I called him one. I know it shocked him because I've never done that before. Should I call and apologize....even though he's talked REALLY bad to me in the past?
2006-10-30 10:05:54 · 30 answers · asked by aimjbtnh3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's never apologized for yelling and talking bad to me in the past. he makes up excuses for his actions.
2006-10-30 10:08:52 · update #1
You frame it this way.
"It is never nice to call someone a bithc. You were shocked. How do you think I feel when I hear it? If you promise never to use that caliber of language again, I won't either."
2006-10-30 10:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, u should apologize. It is never a good idea to do evil for evil. I know it sounds a little soft but do the right things in all things. Be the bigger person in this situation, I promise u will feel better in the end. B/C what u did gave u temporary satisfaction-----I think since u are second guessing ur actions u should apologize.
2006-10-30 10:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Everyone knows that pay back is a B I T C H and what goes around comes around. Trust me Hun there are so many things you could say to him. If he truly cared he would not use bad language in front of you. Women get hurt by words. Men don't let it go. Don't apologize.
2006-10-30 10:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound such as you're particularly sorry, so why convey regret once you're actually not sorry. You do understand that bit&* refers to a woman(canine) many times so calling a guy one particularly isn't proper it. There are different names you call them.... by no potential convey regret for something you do no longer probably be apologetic approximately . you're in all probability greater desirable off without this guy if he verbally abuses you alot.
2016-10-03 02:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you have good mortals. I would feel bad calling anyone a name. Perhaps, it might bring justice to yourself to apologize. Sometimes it's better to be the "bigger" person. On a separate note, would you really want to be involved with someone like that anyways?
2006-10-30 10:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Professor Bradley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about what he's done, but about you. If you feel bad about saying it, then there's nothing wrong with apologizing. If you feel justified, then just let it go and move on. In the big picture, it's not really that big a deal- unless you make it one.
2006-10-30 10:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say apologize but not for his sake but for ur own. u lost control of ur emotions and said something out of ur character. let him know ur not that person and u apologize for saying it like that but tell him why u said let him know the hurtful things caused u to say something in the heat of the moment.lowering ur stanrds never feels good that is why ur wondering if u should apologize.i think so on ur behalf to help u get over it..dont sink to his level of dealing with anger.be the bigger person and expaling ur feelings.the worst that will happen is he will feel bad for hurting u to the piont u lost control and u will get some relief. good luck
2006-10-30 10:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should apologize, then yes (you wouldn't have asked if you didn't think that you should). However, being in a relationship where someone is always degrading you by name calling is not healthy. I'm guessing that you deserve a lot better.
2006-10-30 10:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell no! Don't call if he did it to you a bunch of times. However, if you're going to continue with him, you both need to have a talk about respect and the way you address each other.
2006-10-30 10:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would only apologize if he did first. And if he didn't then don't do it, bc from what you are telling me he sounds very disrespectful.
When he do apologize then you can tell him your sorry and then you can explain why you called him a b*tch.
2006-10-30 10:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋