just informed yesterday that his love for me doesn't compare for his love for his ex since I haven't put in my time. He's been divorced for 6-7 years now, & they have a horrible relationship, he makes me deal w/her when dealing with the kids. He's never said anything positive about their relationship in the 10 years they were married. Told me how lucky he felt that he found his one true love, the one he was meant to spend the rest of his life with. Then yesterday said that it wasn't fair to compare his love for her to me since he'd been with her 10+ years & with me only 2 1/2. Does this sound like garbage to anyone else but me? In all fairness, he treats me so well, & is everything I could ever ask for, but I don't feel like I should be 2nd place to a woman who isn't worth a poop. (lost custody of all 4 of her kids, 2 to us, 2 to her new ex husband, can't keep a job, treated him like garbage etc...) What are your thoughts, I obviously can't leave him, but I feel so cheated!!
2006-10-30
09:54:25
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Heather S
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Marriage & Divorce