I'm not a bad person, I just have had a tendancy to lie. Ive lied because I am nothing unless I make myself appear bigger than I am. If anybody Ive ever lied to reads this Im sorry.
2006-10-30 10:00:22 · 6 answers · asked by Blackjack 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I urge you to get some counseling. You seem to have a self respect issue. You need to do your best and appreciate who you are. You can love them, but trust is a different thing.
2006-10-30 10:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lies we tell about being better than we are are fantasy. We all have a way of trying to make ourselves sound better than we are but as we mature we should become who we would like to be. Put your energy into honesty and your will be proud of yourself. If you are proud of your self, then your actions and words will have integrity and you will become an honorable individual. The is no such thing as a harmless lie...I have no respect, love or admiration for liars of any sort.
2006-10-30 10:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can still love them. But if you don't admit your problem to the people who love you now, then one day soon it will ruin your relationship completely. Admit that you have a problem lying, and tell them you want to change. That says that you love them back. By taking the first step and telling them that you have this problem, you will be more less likely to lie, and at least they can support you and help you stay accountable for your words and actions. Don't be scared to change........but ADMIT your a lier now before its too late, and everything will be better.
2006-10-30 10:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad about it, which is a good thing. make an effort to tell the truth exactly the way it is, and see what happens. Don't worry if it's hard at first, everyone exaggerates the truth a little bit at times.
2006-10-30 10:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be in a relationship if you're going to lie.
2006-10-30 10:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong. That will get you in big big trouble. Have someone like you for who you are and you will be much happier I promise you.
2006-10-30 10:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋