hi guys todays my birthday and im 13 my mom has made this the worste birthday i ever had non of my famly has said happy birthday to me yet only my friends they didnt buy any cake i didnt get any presents and on top of all that my mom made my best friend realy pissed off at me
2006-10-30 09:50:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you should talk to your mom about that
I mean 13 is a big year your a teenager now
anywayz i hope things get better
Happy Birthday
2006-10-30 09:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you, lots of love and happiness, and their are going to be a lot of good things in store for you, every year Life will get better and better for you. What I want you to do is concentrate on your school work, that is your key. Remember that! You have no control over your Mom, but the only one who you can change is yourself, so do the things that you mom ask you to do, just to keep the peace. Call you best friend, and apologize, Say I do not know why my mom is doing this to me, but I just guess that is my mom. Call your Grand-Mom, and talk to her, may be she can cheer you up, try and make yourself happy, I know just how you feel, I did not have any thing for my birthday also. So take care, Good days are in store for you!
2006-10-30 18:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it seem like everyone forgot your b-day, which happened to me a lot. My 13 was the worst. Since you now are a teenager you would think it would be special. Well don't let your b-day go by without enjoying it even if you have to make the day special just for you. Stop thinking about them and what they did or did not do and start making your day special without them. Today is all about you anyway.
2006-10-30 17:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't feel so bad, my family forgot the important 16th birthday. Crap happens. I'm older now, and my boyfriends family usually ignore my birthday or give me dollar store gifts (except his mom puts a little more effort).
Can you talk to your mom and family and tell them how it made you feel?
Otherwise, I try to get over it. In a few years, you'll be out on your own. What you think about, you will draw to you. So learn to forgive and see them as reflections. In what area are you not acknowledging and taking care of yourself? Are you eing negligent to others? They say what you do comes back to you n one way or another.
Don't fret, you have your whole life ahead of you and many more good times, I promise. Just be careful of energy you're sending out and regularly pray to the One who created us for forgiveness and erasing of any bad karma. Other than that, move on and do things to make you happy...don't wait around for others to rbing you happiness. Take care of number one!
2006-10-30 17:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by FeeFee le Mew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your going through a "Sixteen Candles" period. Lol. Just forget about em. Let them forget about your birthday, you have a great birthday, and then, someday use that against em. Hope i helped.
Happy birthday by the way. i LOOOVED being 13
2006-10-30 17:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anoukens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have a surprise birthday for you, because I'm sure they would have sang HB to you. They are probably trying to throw you off, I can't beleve that your family forgot. Just wait the night is still young. Make sure you let us know what happens..
2006-10-30 17:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, maybe a surprise is comin in for u lata...or maybeu didnt get presents because you are now a teenager...not a little kid.so u r becoming an adult....and i guess if ur mom got ur friend mad at you in a BIG way,u and ur mom have to make-up for it to her in a BIGGER way....OR maybe u didnt get a cake becauseyour mom didnt have enough money to get you one....BUT on the other hand,u could be getting a surprise party....anywayz, "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!"
2006-10-30 17:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by student 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about that. Do they even remember the fact that its your birthday? have you told them? If you havent yet and they didnt even remember, trust me, they will feel guilty as hell when you do tell them. Hopefully, they will attempt to make up for it.
BTW, Happy 13th Birthday.
2006-10-30 17:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well happy birthday, sorry you had a bad day. talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. i don't understand why your mother wouldn't acknowledge your b-day.
2006-10-30 17:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are all planning a surprise party for you! lol
2006-10-30 17:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Generation-Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋