I mean, Im dating this other guy and I like him a lot but me and my ex still love each other and the only reason we are not together is becuase of the distance. We tried a long distance relationship but it wasnt right for either of us, but we are still in love. I moved on and started dating again in an attempt to get over him but I cant.
2006-10-30 09:53:45 · 15 answers · asked by BUN BUN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been this exact situation 4 years back, and well.. I was honest with the other guys I've dated. I told them about my ex and how he means a lot to me. Some guys are fine about it and just wanna have fun and date. But a year ago, I started to get close to one of my close friends that knows about my ex, and we became closer. And it's almost been 1 year since we've been together official. My current boyfriend helped me close the chapter of feelings for my ex. And I'm so over my ex now (even though it took me 3 years to completely get over him). My bf is a wonderful man, and I'm glad i'm with him. It'll definitely take time to get over your ex, but when you date others.. be honest with them so you don't break their hearts when your ex surprise visits you or something. Good luck girl!
2006-10-30 09:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by JenGen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this same situation. It took me 6 years to get over him. Distance was the same for us, but we were 19 years old and that was a big deal for us.
If you are an adult and you really TRULY love each other the distance is only a minor road bump in this life that you two COULD share together.
You should ask yourself if there is any way the two of you can be together, if you can't find a way then you should move on as you are doing now.
What's not fair to your new beau is continuing this long distance relationship with your ex. Give him a fair shot, who knows, he could be the one you were born to love. But no, it's not wrong, just a little unfair to your new guy.
2006-10-30 09:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. A lot of ppl have that problem. I think you should wait though. Sound like ur not ready to test the waters. You dont need another guy to get over your ex. Keep busy, and go out with friends. And when your ready, go out with guys too.
2006-10-30 09:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anoukens 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong. Love is not something you can just drop. If there is some reason that you can't be together, then still love and stay friends. But before all that, remember that life is there to be lived and you should always follow your heart and try to be honest with your current man, he should know how you feel.
2006-10-30 10:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's not really fair for the other guys. Thinking they have a chance when you are caught up in the ex.
2006-10-30 09:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if its wrong but everyone probably says to start going out with other guys to help you get over your ex....i have never took this advice because how can you give anyone even the slightest chance with you if you cant give them all of yourself your attention ya know.....
2006-10-30 09:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it incorrect to love him, nicely regrettably we gained't consistently administration who we fall for...yet might desire to she date him??? unquestionably not! of direction it rather is only my opinion, yet while she is rather and actually a chum of Andrea's then she might desire to care adequate approximately her thoughts and supply up issues in the previous they go any farther. that is cliche, yet adult adult males come and go...a lesson all of us learn the difficult way...real pals are difficult to discover. i assume Andrea will discover out no rely if or not Emma is a real buddy. For the checklist, i might under no circumstances try this to a chum and would not forgive a chum who did it to me.
2016-10-16 13:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
???
first if you are dating a guy but like another than you should be going with your ex.
2006-10-30 09:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by amber h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong if both of ok with dat u'll get over it after lil time...& other if u really like him jst keep in touch maybe u ll get back together leter..
2006-10-30 10:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by malinka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard if you move away but if your not going back you have to tell him that u like other ppl and tell him u still love him maybe he has ideas
2006-10-30 09:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by xx2dreamer2xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋