What do guys in like 8th grade think of someone whos outspoken and stands up for herself. Guys never seem interested in the girls who are self respecting and and not a slut or popular. I'm like this and I am a little on the off beat side. I'm kind but have a bit of a temper if people set me off. So what If i have some extra weight, but im not fat. I'm againts alot of things alot of girls are for. Like religion, I'm atheist. Guy think they can change girls like me. But we stand up for ourselves and don't take any crap. What do guys think of these kind of girls and are guys afraid of these kind of girls and thats why they don't nessesarly choose these kinds? Sorry if my question is confusing
2006-10-30 10:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Katie M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait wait wait wait! I'm very nice and kind to people! I just have a bad temper when people are mean to me. I'm generoud dand do a bunch of stuff for the school and the people.
2006-10-30 10:11:17 · update #1
and i dont like the people that want to chnage me. It is ppl like me in general who ppl want to change. I just dont stand for it
2006-10-30 10:13:06 · update #2
It's not just a problem with men, but people in general. We tend to separate the usual from the unusual, meaning what we are used to from what we are not used to. First off I would say you need to stop liking guys who want to change you!! If they want you, they will take you as you are. Second, it's all about confidence, and I think most people would agree with me when I say that having confidence (not being cocky though) is very stimulating for the opposite sex and makes you more appealing. Third, don't try to change men, you'll find who is worth you (or he'll find you) but you just have to be a little patient! He'll appear when you least expect him to!
Hope that was of any help!
2006-10-30 10:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by lilmeeh008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not as easy to date a girl who has strong odd opinions. It's like this. Hold a saltine in one hand and an ice cube in the other.... squeeze as tightly as you can for 60 seconds. At the end of 60 seconds which are you going to drop? The ice cube because it's ******* cold! Well the same is with girls with opinions... they're difficult to hold onto and it's easier to have something stale and easy to control like a saltine cracker.
2006-10-30 18:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys at this age are imature and ... well immature. 8th grade boys want a girl that their friends will approve of. This means she's pretty, and popular. Once u get up in the upper grades, you'll find that guys come in all personalitys..u just have to wait for them to grow into their own person.
2006-10-30 18:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by becca 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
iight imma be honest with you.
im not in 8th grade ne more but i can still give ya a piece of advice
heres the thing
you cant act all tough and sh*t because guys like girls that are not b*tchy and by you yelling and screaming guys might think ur havin ur B*itch fit at someone and u juss gotta be all nice and **** and dont act like ur someone tough.
NO EXCEPTION - guys want gurls that arnt prude - it dont mean that guys dont love they juss do it for p***y, but yea, guys want sh*t from there girl so u gotta think bout that too.
2006-10-30 18:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by gamershot 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl i am sorry but me and those guys can all clearly see that u have a serious problem. i am not trying to be funny. but did something happen to u . cause if u have a bad temper and don't have any religeous beliefs than there is something wrong.
2006-10-30 18:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by leelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh well to be honest which u i was about to say yes until somthing there that i read and i said nope nevermind
2006-10-30 18:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-30 18:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by jos q 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋