I met this wonderful guy. Things have been moving along rather slowly. I like the pace he is not trying to rush things. We have not even kissed although we have been seeing each other for three months now. He is still going through a divorce. I have addressed the issue as to where I fit in to all of this and insisted if there was not an interest that I could move on. He expressed that there was an interest that he was just still dealing emotionally with the divorce. I really like him. What should I do? Should I remain with him until he gets through this process or should I give hime some space or just move on?
2006-10-30 09:54:43 · 11 answers · asked by Igots2know 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a guy that actually has his head on his shoulders!
he seems to know that it would be wise to deal with his current emotions instead of letting new ones flood in and cover them over... a good thing because those emotions won't have to come out to haunt him in the future if he takes his time now.
i say follow your heart and stick it out as long as possible!
♥
2006-10-30 09:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i desire to declare that this tale replace into so lovable ( this means some thing by way of fact i'm not an extremely sappy guy)! i myself felt like i replace into examining a love tale or some thing. in any case, i think of that he's into you, he rather gave the impression to be so. possibly he's only apprehensive approximately this unexpected reconnection and is not effective the place it is going to lead. i think such as you have not been seeing him for a protracted adequate time yet to offer up or experience unhappy, only supply it some greater time! i think like he will come around in the close to destiny and you the two would be very pleased. i only can not see how those previous events won't be able to hold approximately a courting. If all works out, you may desire to write an ending on your love tale :)
2016-10-16 13:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,because of the fact that he is going through a divorce...that would probably make him vulnerable and he just probably needs some time to cope with his feelings....and from what i've read he really like you,,,,so just give him some time he'll come around...and most guys don't like a girl who rushes relationships anyway (espically with what he's dealing with right now).
2006-10-30 09:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by //Ash// 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him and support him. If he starts acting like what is going on is too much, give him space. If it takes a long time for him to deal with his emotions, move on. He has baggage that you don't need if that's the case.
2006-10-30 09:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the divorce to be finalized. Plan a nice dinner for that evening. On that day, run up and give him a kiss. It will give you something nice to talk about that evening.
2006-10-30 09:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your additional info confused me but I'm gonna answer your question anyway, it means leave him or ask him who is she, simple. he has obviously forgotten who you are and got mixed up, not the sort of thing you say after 3 months, unless you just come out the cupboard.
2006-10-30 10:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u r not the only 1 just something to think about
2006-10-30 09:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then give him some time and space. be careful, you might be his rebound...
2006-10-30 09:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time.
2006-10-30 09:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is interested so just wait
2006-10-30 09:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Roshni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋