sumtimes i feel pressured to loose weight just to keep myself looking good and i compare myself to others and try to be skinnier. i know i shouldn't do that but i know guys go for the better body type of girls. the guys have never called me fat and no1 else calls me fat , but i just feel like i am and i don't know why?
2006-10-30 09:56:30 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG BABE u have a 6 pack.. ur gorgeous and guys drool over u.. if u EVER say ur fat again I'm going to feed Bayla a fried twinkie!! lol grr that cat is evil.. lol n e ways back to advice.. u already r w/ "HIM" lol and he is a great guy and u r gorgeous.. if u get to b 87 lbs. I will put sugar in ur tea.. lol and like u need to quit trying to loose weight like how u lost 5 lbs. this weekend.. thats not good.. just eating granola bars is HORRIBLE for u.. ur underweight n e way.. and chicky u need more protien.. I know u have YUMMY chicken in ur refrigerator.. and ur bro and dad fish all the time.. so u should be good on protien.. and u need to drink WATER not gatorade like the 3 bottles in ur locker... lol I love u and don't want u to b GROSS skinny...
2006-10-30 14:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you dont want to start down this road because you could end up with a bad eating disorder. First of all you are underweight, second of all you are only 13 and do NOT need to be worrying about this kind of thing. Go out with friends, have fun, eat pizza! And stop obsessing about what other people may or may not say about you because you seem like a really cool gal regardless.
A fact about starving yourself:
If you starve yourself it will make your body go into freakout mode and you will actually gain weight
A fact about bulemia:
If you start to throw up your food eventually over time your esophogus will be eaten away by the acid in your stomache.
Thats why these are bad. And you can die from them.
Also, Im a bbw and trust me men LOVE the curves. If you really want to worry about how you look then you should go for a beyonce look because she is gorgeous and a wonderful role model for women. She is strong, confident, beautiful, and a good soul.
2006-10-30 10:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG no, you are under weight already. A good weight would be between 115-140 for that height. Ifyou have body issues, try to gain the weight in a healthy way as muscle, from working out. I PROMISE a guy will appreciate a toned body more than a stick-thin one anyday
If you still have these feelings, talk to a counselor, as this could be a precursor to anorexia or bulemia, and you don't want to get to that point beore you get help.
2006-10-30 10:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rum_Punch_Girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not fat. In fact, I would be careful if I were you. For anyone of that height to weigh what you do is bordering on being too skinny, and if you are not careful you may be on the path to an eating disorder.
Oh, and by the way- it might relieve you to know that guys, as a rule, prefer gals of a healthy weight to those who are stick thin. So don't feel pressured.
2006-10-30 10:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a mans point of veiw an not a shallow little boys point of veiw--- Your Gonna gain some weight It will compliment your height an besides .Have you seen Nicole richie thats sooooooooooooooooooo nasty >>Gaining weights not a bad thing as you mature your body will change an to be healthy gaing weight will be a good thing And hey no ones calling you fat should tell you something
2006-10-30 10:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by smpaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on average you should be around 100 so you're fine right now. If you feel fat, just try some different wardrobes. For example, if you wear baggy clothes and sweatpants or stuff like that, try wearing tight clothes and see how much lighter you feel. The more confident you feel about yourself the happier your life will be.
2006-10-30 10:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by XOXOkrazykittyXOXO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you've got a bit of a problem there, sweet pea. I'm three inches shorter than you and weigh about fifteen pounds more, and people tell me I look great. I think you might have BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder), a disorder in which you focus on a bodily flaw and obsess over it, or even make one up. I recommend counseling. And a sandwich.
2006-10-30 09:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
93 pounds!? U don't need to lose any weight. You're skinny enough! Trust me, I have a brother who weighs more than that. U're skinny enough now. Don't feel pressured to, those girls who look good, some are anorexic. And that's not good, so don't go anorexic.
2006-10-30 10:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get some help sweet heart before it is too late. You need to find material on eating disorders, magazines, dvd, articles etc. You need to learn to appreciate what God has made you. You are too thin. You also need to research the effects on eating disorders it can cause serious health problems in the long run. Take care and eat healthly.
2006-10-30 10:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are definately not fat. You are probably a little underweight for your height. Any guy that is only interested in you for how your body looks is not worth your time. The best body type is one that is healthy.
2006-10-30 10:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bettie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋