Is there really just one person who is made for the other out there.........or are there several lifelong compatible mates for each person.......it is just our responsibility to choose one person and be committed to them for the rest of our lives? I am not questioning my marriage......trust me i am fighting hard to keep mine right now.......but i was just wondering what your theory is...........this may also be a result of a weeks use of pain meds too......who knows.....but anyway....wot do you think?
2006-10-30 10:02:08 · 12 answers · asked by Carolina Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I always want to believe there exists a soulmate because it sounds good.
And I hope God gives each of us a soulmate as He did to Adam.
I do still believe you can be compatible with many other people as there are billions of people in the world, but God puts Geographical barriers I would say. I don't think you would go to Siberia looking for a mate, you probably would stick in your own area, in that case you might only have the possibiities of getting only one "soulmate"
But I do believe like this. As it was done in the old times by parents, God chooses a wife for a man, as in arranged marriage, because He knows what is best for us. And through His miracles brings those two people together. That is what I believe. The actual fact / truth may be different.
2006-10-30 10:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitly think God has a specific person out there made for us. But not knowing we get ourself into many devilish relationships before we meet who we were ment to be with. Some people never make the connection. As for me when I was 5yrs. I had a dream of this boy and he was always so nice to me. Then I dreamed of him as a teenager, then I had a dream of him as an adult and we always had so much fun together. And I met this man and after being together for a few years he made a certain face and I relized he was the same man in the dream. And as I started to tell him about these dreams he said I know. I asked why he didn't say anything he said he didn't think I would believe him. From then on I believe God has people who are made for each other. I met mine after many bad relationships and one bad marriage.
2006-10-30 10:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think there is only one person for each of us. But until you find this person, you may have to keep struggling with bad experiences and wrong decisions in relationships. I went through these struggles too, and I felt like I was too blame every time. Now I found my soulmate and I know I made the right decision this time.
2006-10-30 10:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the commitment In yourself first, then If and when someone comes along In life you feel comfortable with then It will happen. But If anyone had the answer to that question then love and happiness would be an every day thing. But Its not so we go right on looking.
2006-10-30 10:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Blackjack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Soul Mate is frequently misunderstood and used within the fallacious context. Your soul mate might be your mom or a buddy. Not all soul mate relationships are sexual in nature. Most humans desire to intend existence/love accomplice and "the only" they're supposed to be with.
2016-09-01 04:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are more than one soul mate for a person but the possibility of finding all in each relationship is like one in thousand, thats why its great and worth saving if you find one at anytime in your life especially if you're lucky enough to be married to one.
soulmates are not a very good material to gamble with 'cos theres more possibility of losing one and never finding another becos you'll have get round one thousand none soulmates.
hope this answers you question.
Good luck.
2006-10-30 10:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that yes there is one person out there for everyone, you obviously aren't with the one God meant for you. If you are unhappy do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. Try counseling or maybe a weekend away. Find out what it is about the marriage that isn't right and do whatever it takes to make it work. Talk to your hubby about it
2006-10-30 10:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soul mate is a lazy person's excuse to dump someone.
"I think Bill is my soul mate so I'm going to dump Fred"
They are just too lazy to do the work that relationships require.
2006-10-30 10:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only One soulmate but Ive heard ppl can be happy with up to 5 or 10 ppl on the planet maybe even more..
2006-10-30 10:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce his @ss. soul mates?
you're much too intelligent to subscribe to such non-sense.
slow down on the hydrocodone...
"fighting hard" & "pain meds"
- he better not be beating you -
2006-10-30 10:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋