My boyfriend of over a year said "I love you Vanessa" after we had sex. Vanessa is his ex's name. Don't know how I should have reacted but it didn't sit well with me. I've never felt jealous of her, still don't. I am just curious if thats what he really feels or if it was just a habbit because he was with her for 13 years and half asleep. She left him and their 3 kids to pusue a gay lifestyle, she now dresses like a man.
2006-10-30 09:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by n v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 yrs is a long time to be with someone, since there is no chance of them getting back together-she not a threat. But he probably still have feelings for her-those feelings will be hard to let go of. He could need more time to adjust to her leaving before he can really date again.
2006-10-30 10:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im gone keep it real. You want the truth. Sometimes the truth is ugly. It possible that you were a rebound. She left him, he was hurt, so he went looking for love to cover the hole in his heart. How long after he broke up with her did you 2 get together? But 13 years is a long time though. It's possible it was a mistake.
2006-10-30 09:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋