Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

i think they may get a dioive and want me to choos who to live with i carn't casue then it means i love one more then the other what do i don't want them to get a divioce then been together for 20 odd years

2006-10-30 08:50:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and what did you do about its ? Same sex friends also can answer.

2006-10-30 08:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok..girlies..i need to get my ex thinking' i should never have let her go'..should i go out in a sexy short number, or a classy look??? hmmmmmm??!?!?!

2006-10-30 08:49:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK please read all of the information.
1)when he first got there he pined her down and kissed her
2)she had a girl friend at the apt.
3)they guy got naked and go into her bed
4)later she got into the bed thinking he was passed out (supposibly)
5)He aparently already had a condom on then go on top of her and took her clothes off
6)She told me that she said no 3 times to him, but did not do anytyhing else besides that
7)After she put her clothes on and told him she felt sick, he wanted to **** again
8)she sounded normal on teh phone this morning
9)she didnt call the police, but text messaged a friend who showed up after the guy left

Would you take her back? is she being honest by these facts??

2006-10-30 08:49:18 · 39 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know peoples opoion on this and in as much detail as possible thank youuuu

2006-10-30 08:48:28 · 45 answers · asked by **//PRINCESS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this dude is my EX best friends fiance and the dad to her 3 yr old daughter and my EX best friend will be 17 in December i think. but see her fiance is my ex bf. she went to a party they both got drunk and she ****** him and got pregnant. now me and him are talking again and his on my side with everything now. Cause a few years ago i was raped and he beat the h*ll outta the dude that done it. well that dude moved away and now his back. well my EX best friend let the guy that raped me move in with her. she didn't tell her fiance about it and i did. so now there fighting and me and are hanging out a lot more and are getting touchie feelie what do i do?

2006-10-30 08:48:23 · 9 answers · asked by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 in Singles & Dating

been with my man for a year..We split four months ago..during this time I have been on his case to get him back..he doesnt show any interest, is it cos iv been on his case?..because the odd time he tells me what he has for me will never go. Iv been so pathetic to him, constantly askin him to meet..n no response..if I back off will I get a response??..Thankuuu..xx

2006-10-30 08:47:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy , I talk to him like every night , he says he likes me back , but he acts so goofy all the time I cant tell if he ids being serious or not..What do I do?

2006-10-30 08:47:40 · 1 answers · asked by Madalyn 1 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing this girl, we have a VERY special connection (we both feel it) She is also dating this other guy that she meet before me, that she really doesn't like too much. But, they were dating first. I told her at dinner the other night how much I cared for her and my feelings towards her (very hard for me to do, to put myself out there like that). Well she said she feels the same, but she needs some time to figure things out, because she already is dating this guy. But she still wants to see me while she figures it out. Should I see her again soon ? Should I giver her flowers or a poem ? Should I try to win her over ? ..... Or, should I play it cool ? and let her contact me (not what I want, because I am nervous and waiting is making me crazy...haha) ?

2006-10-30 08:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Singles & Dating

My GF is not what you woudl call an "active" person. It has been 3 years since out daughter was born, and she still has a little baby weight. I am fairly active, and am starting to work out more. I want her to join me, both because it would be good for her and so we can do something together. She really doesn't want to, because she isn't really into excersise.
How can I get her to partticipate with me without saying "hey, you're gettign fat"?

2006-10-30 08:46:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My little sister is going on 3 years old and she is still not all they way off the bottle.. she okay dearing the day but when it comes to taking a nap or bed time she had a fit tell she get one ... what do you think i should do ????

2006-10-30 08:46:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-30 08:45:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im out for dinner on friday but will be all dressed up with nowhere to go on saturday! sob sob sob :(

what are you up to?

2006-10-30 08:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Singles & Dating

and I still have feelings for him and I dont think he knows what should I do?

2006-10-30 08:45:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can he not see the disgust in my face? does that somehow turn men on? grosss.

2006-10-30 08:45:05 · 27 answers · asked by miranda e 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, short of the old in-out and all the joy that brings.

2006-10-30 08:44:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

many women on this forum. i am married - love my wife -do everything for her - wine & dine,flowers, daily massage, help around the house, shopping, look after the kids - love the kids - they are my life - would never do anything to hurt her or kids but.........................she will not kiss, cuddle or have sex with me unless she wants to - had sex 3 times in past 4 years. tried everything, nothing works - DO NOT reply seek counselling - dont need it - tried everything already!! just want someone to hold me, kiss me passionately and make love to me occassionally - Ladies am i asking too much - please do not advice to leave my wife - i love her -this is not an option - should i seek sex elsewhere? before the men start i am not a timid little guy - i am 6'2", 16 stone, Martial Arts instructor, in good shape - just caught between love and a hard place!!

2006-10-30 08:44:03 · 45 answers · asked by Jo J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom lives with my sis and act as a live in babysitter for her. Whenever I try to get my mom get out of the house without my sis & her children my mother lashes out at me. I have made grand plans for spending time with my mother and at the last minute she will bail out saying she already had plans which i know is not true. I am at my wits end and dont know what to do. I dont want to die before my mom does and she be filled with regret for not spending more time with me. On the flip side i dont want all of our memories together to be of me trying to get her out of the house to enjoy life
I am not a needy child; I have a great life of my own that ocasionally includes a significant other but always includes 4 nephews and 3 god daughters all of whom keep me busy

Any thoughts, ideas or suggestions? Not looking for anyone to analzye my family-already know we are a cray bunch, lol. Just want a different perspective.

2006-10-30 08:43:50 · 2 answers · asked by msijg 5 in Family

2006-10-30 08:43:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed they have 0.01 auctions and the rings are like 2, 3, or 4 carats...it all sounds "too good to be true" since there are no bidders and it's 1 cent...it's just crazy..would like to get opinions, thoughts, EXPERIENCES :o)

2006-10-30 08:42:37 · 13 answers · asked by Goofita 2 in Weddings

2006-10-30 08:42:23 · 17 answers · asked by L D 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, WHAT TO DO has been asked a million times here! But my problem is this.

Yesterday, my ex-GF's Gran unfortunately died. It was not unexpected however. She lived with her Grand-daughter and her grand-daughter's boyfriend, Phil.

Obviously, everyone in the family is upset at the loss. When she was alive, she was able to put Phil in his place and stop him being the a**hole he naturally is. No she is no longer.

Now he insist that the rest of the family do not tell Jane (my ex) and told her sister Emma that if she told Jane, her Gran would haunt her for the rest of her life.

In the past, he has been to prison because he beat up his ex-wife, and his young son (apparently put him in hospital). A few years ago he married Jane's other sister, who is mentally slow and beat her up. She is now deaf in one ear. For some reason, their other sister decided to have a baby with this turd.

2006-10-30 08:41:59 · 11 answers · asked by puggtiracer 3 in Family

Long story short, she drops by without calling first, she calls at very late hours of the night, & if we don't get the phone when she calls, anytime of the day, she calls at least 2 more times in a row! Leave a VM! (and I've asked her nicely many times to please not do this!) To me it is just inconsiderate & rude. We've had many serious family situations in the past few years & many "bad news" late night phone calls. So the instant the phone rings this late I have terrible anxiety & can't go back to sleep & I am pregnant now & really need my sleep more than ever!!
I love her to death & we are very close in many regards but I just can't seem to get her to respect certain issues. We are spending almost all our free time with her lately & it seems like she just can't respect our alone time or our house rules, so to speak. It is driving me insane & making me angry with him & her. My parents would never be so rude & understand the meaning of the word boundary!! What should I do?

2006-10-30 08:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by Koryn =^..^= 1 in Family

I known him sense high school and I think he is real nice and avery thing but I dont feel that way about him how should I let him know how I feel with out hurting him and staying friends.

2006-10-30 08:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by CALI GIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so I just asked a question about my abusive ex and I thought of another, his mother has a restraining order against me...she is crazy I sware. Do you think this would effect child custody, if I have never had any problems with the law or drugs ect??? I have never had a restraining order against me by anyone. My ex now lives with her and even testified that she was crazy in court!! I just worry bout my babies being with him

2006-10-30 08:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 08:39:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so i like this guy
im a sophmore and hes a junior both in highschool
we're good friends, so talk a lot and hang out and stuff
but hes kinda a player, so how do i kno if he likes me as more than a friend??

2006-10-30 08:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always wondered if white guys would wanna be with a black girl. If you guys do, what is it that attracts you to them. Do you guys like the booty and the freak in them? Let me know, I just want to know about this. I always wondered if you may be attracted to us somehow...

Let me know and be honest plz

2006-10-30 08:38:46 · 15 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is having alot of problems at work, (suspension without pay, possible termination) He is, understandably, stressed and depressed. What can I do to help? In his situation, would you want to just be left alone or what? I am trying to be supportive, loving, stand by my man, all that stuff, but it seems like it is having no effect. So, guys, what should I do?

2006-10-30 08:38:46 · 13 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Marriage & Divorce

this is for men what is the nicest thing you have done for a woman

2006-10-30 08:38:24 · 4 answers · asked by PAULINA S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships