Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

So I have been dating this woman for a couple of months now and I really would like to see where she stands as far as us being in a relationship. Is it too weird for me to have her over and make dinner for her? If that works and isn't too soon, how do I then pose the question to her that I would like us to be in a relationship of boyfriend/girlfriend rather then two people dating. I feel she is waiting for me to make this move...but Im not positive and I am not going to go the point of having sex with her until I find out where we stand just because

2006-10-30 08:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

When you are laying or sitting with a girl watching a movie and she is in your arms, what do you do/ like to do, and what does she like?

2006-10-30 08:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 08:25:47 · 9 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

my friends keep ib saying that im flirting with a teacher! should i ignore them?

2006-10-30 08:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and what do they need to help them relax? a little 'playtime' always makes me feel better

2006-10-30 08:23:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://i13.tinypic.com/4dmujop.jpg

There's some pictures of his shirts. Moobs?

2006-10-30 08:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend dumped me last july and i still love her to this day. She was my first true love, but I feel like shes the only one for me out there, I went out with her for a year 1/2 but it felt like i knew her all my life, we had it all, but now she acts like i dont even exist anymore. I think about her everyday and it hurts. We did have some regular problems but we were so damn compatiable. she just gave up on me. By the way shes 17 and im 19. I feel like no one can replace her. I lost my dad when I was 16 and she filled in that spot when he passed away. I tell her this and she just doesnt understand me. what do i do

2006-10-30 08:23:09 · 29 answers · asked by Biela Tygrysa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This fu**ed up relationship I was in for six years the guy never wanted to talk about anything serious in person he would wait until he got to his house call me then discuss our problems or feelings or whatever. I felt like I was in highschool. Why did he do that? Just wondering.

2006-10-30 08:22:52 · 5 answers · asked by Peek@u 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a bully problem. and it was from a former person who used to be my best friend what should I do? and what are some good come-backs?

2006-10-30 08:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by Charlotte 2 in Friends

I HAVE MY TWIN SISTER HERE AND SHE TOTALLY LIKES THIS GUY AND HAS BEEN IN LOVE WITH HIM FOREVER!! WELL HE DOESNT LIKE HER AND TOTALLY LIKES HER BESTFRIEND.. HE HAS TOLD ME B4 AND I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!! SHE SO THINKS THAT HE IS CRAZY ABOUT HER BUT SHE DOESNT REALIZE THAT HE IS JUST A FRIENDLY PERSON.. I WANNA LAT HER KNO HOW HE FEELS BU TI DONT KNOW HOW TO BREAK IT TO HER! AND HER BESTFRIEND HAS NO IDEA THAT HE LIKES HER! SHOULD I TELL MY SISTER HOW HE FEELS...... SHOULD I WAIT AND LET HIM.......... OR SHOULD I JUST ACT LIKE I DONT KNO CUZ I DONT WANT HER TO HATE ME?

2006-10-30 08:22:03 · 5 answers · asked by H-POO_02 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 08:21:19 · 3 answers · asked by connie j 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy named jonathan that i think is really cute! and last friday i went to a party and he was there so we were talking and dancing....and he was really flirting with me he was holding my hand and hugging me and messing around with me and i didnt mind becuz of course this guy is really cute!...but he has a gf and it felt weird because im not like that but i wasnt sure if he was being a player or if he was really feeling me ...but his gf is crazy...she takes control over him..she has him on check and shes always yelling at him..never lets him go out anywhere i was really surprised he was at this party because that day was his gfs birthday...but anyways i dont know what to do he needs a reality check....i dont kno y his with her...i dont kno what to do.. wut if he does try to "hook" up with me should i go for it? am i going to be the wrong person here? i would go for it..maybe i can be his reality check..

2006-10-30 08:21:11 · 5 answers · asked by N-Rey726 1 in Singles & Dating

In case the wife is a working professional and the house in which they stay belong to her mother, will the husband have any right to that house? As for the children, do they by default go to the wife?

2006-10-30 08:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by NJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I am going to be violated, don't you think it should at least FEEL GOOD?!

I actually got one for reason: prostitution!! lmao, now that takes the cake eh

Man I have some serious points to make up....

2006-10-30 08:19:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to be there for her, but i feel like i dont know her any more. she keeps pushing me away, because i am still very bitter about this whole situation.

2006-10-30 08:18:10 · 6 answers · asked by Kellie D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-30 08:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a hermaphrodite male and would like to date a female like myself. if anyone know sumone or knows a site, or sumthing that could help me find one it would be very helpful please.

2006-10-30 08:16:49 · 4 answers · asked by jdeedles 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do people try to make you jealous by continuously mentioning how much they make? how do i shut them up!?
Tired of this girl talking about how much she makes and trying to make me feel lower than her...as if i dont have a good job! She talks to me like I know nothing about the business world! I hate it. Not to mention, she is talking to a guy that i was previously talking to. I think she is trying everything in her power to make me jealous. She will never make me jealous, but she is getting under my skin.


I dont care about how much she makes. But I also dont want her to think that I am ignorant to how to get jobs....high paying jobs etc.....I make a good amount of money, and i want to blurt it out so bad to make her feel stupid! but I was taught to be humble and not to do those things.

2006-10-30 08:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by aimjbtnh3 1 in Friends

http://i14.tinypic.com/4h0b60w.jpg

PLZ HELP!
Are those moobs (man boobs), or could it just be a wrinkle in his shirt? LOL HELp

2006-10-30 08:16:16 · 9 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-30 08:16:01 · 20 answers · asked by tinkerbellavic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who's girlfriend broke up with him. Then some other guy started begging her like 87 times to go out with him, and she gave in. Why would a girl do that?

2006-10-30 08:15:38 · 14 answers · asked by viva_bamm 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, girls meet guys everywhere(street,malls,clubs,work,etc). Sometimes they give numbers out coz they like a guy or just want to get rid of someone.

But, i want to know about your experience about one of the rare guys that you meet who you exchange phone numbers. And strangely it's you who make the first call coz u felt his intense charms doing magic on you. Please talk about what u saw in him that made u fell for him(dress code,fragrance?,body/hair/eyes/smile/accent/skin?, manners?,style of approach?,etc ?or combination?).

Thanks for writing a great description.

2006-10-30 08:15:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you have one...&...what is it...

2006-10-30 08:14:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont what im doing wrong. What are some things i can do and places to go.

2006-10-30 08:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by nafarius333 2 in Singles & Dating

In a perfect world what age would you like to get engaged at, married at and start a family at ??

2006-10-30 08:13:44 · 17 answers · asked by Caz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

mine was '' no underwear ''

2006-10-30 08:12:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a cousin i called d.j. and another called , i don't wanna say it , but just call her b.b. d.j. and b.b. are in the same class and b.b. likes to take any boy d.j. likes. but one day a guy that b.b. like ask d.j. out and that caused a total catastrophe. what advice should i give to d.j.?

2006-10-30 08:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by miss kiss 2 in Friends

My x and I did our own divorce. He was the only one who had to show up in court because it was non-contested. I finally have read the decree and it states that I was making a certain amount of money at that time. I was actually unemployed. My attorney said that in some cases a judge will insert an amount of money he feels that party SHOULD be able to earn. This was asked for child support purposes. I have never heard of this being done. Has anyone out there heard of this before? I contend my x was trying his best to get the support as low as possible. He also stated he had the kids 49% of the time. Every other weekend is not 49% of the time. I believe HE put this amount in. SOOOOOOO anybody?

2006-10-30 08:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I'm into finally broke up with his ex of years this summer and since then we've been spending more and more time together in date-like situations. We practically are dating already, although the hookups and such have been kept a secret so far to everyone else. His ex doesn't know about me being close to him.

I care a lot about this guy and I know he cares about me as well... but at the same time he dated this other girl for so long that he's having trouble letting go. I want to be able to be with him without keeping things so secretive, but I don't want to make him feel pressure from me, since I know getting over a breakup can take time. Do I...

*Keep things where they stand now until he acts?
*Pressure him somewhat to make a decision?
*Give up on him to keep from getting hurt if he ends up staying obsessed with her?
*Or something else?

I'm sick of waiting around and not knowing what I should think or feel. Help me!

2006-10-30 08:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by centralwimusic 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend invited me to join LoveHappens. So i want to meet people, not necessarily take it any further.

2006-10-30 08:10:32 · 2 answers · asked by kcubes 1 in Singles & Dating