theres this guy named jonathan that i think is really cute! and last friday i went to a party and he was there so we were talking and dancing....and he was really flirting with me he was holding my hand and hugging me and messing around with me and i didnt mind becuz of course this guy is really cute!...but he has a gf and it felt weird because im not like that but i wasnt sure if he was being a player or if he was really feeling me ...but his gf is crazy...she takes control over him..she has him on check and shes always yelling at him..never lets him go out anywhere i was really surprised he was at this party because that day was his gfs birthday...but anyways i dont know what to do he needs a reality check....i dont kno y his with her...i dont kno what to do.. wut if he does try to "hook" up with me should i go for it? am i going to be the wrong person here? i would go for it..maybe i can be his reality check..
2006-10-30 08:21:11 · 5 answers · asked by N-Rey726 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you just want to get layed hook up with him. If you want areal commitment RUN!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 08:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bill D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how you get with a man, is how you will end it with him. Wait til he has called it quits with her and then you will know he is for real. If you let him be with you, while he is still with her and he has not completely let her go, he will try and be with you both and someone always gets hurt in this type of love triangle. If you value respect in a relationship the only way to get it from a guy is to demand it and starting out in a relationship playing second fiddle only admits that you have no respect for yourself. Wait until he is free and open to a new relationship. I know he's cute and its hard to wait but patience is a virtue, trust me!
2006-10-30 16:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything wrong with talking to him what so ever.. if he chooses to bring anything up about the two of yu hooking up or anything make sure and remind him that he has a girlfriend.. yu cant let him end up blaming anything on yu cuz if he comes on to yu thats not your fault!!If i were yu i so would continue to talk to him there is absolutely nothin wrong with that.. at least i believe that so for now just talk to him make sure yu know how he feels but dont do anythin with him just yet wait until he dumps hic physco *** girlfriend!!
2006-10-30 17:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by H-POO_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, girl, so maybe he is into you, and maybe his girlfriend is controlling. But...he is messing around with you and he does not have the decency to break it off with his girlfriend. That says allot. Even though is girlfriend is shady, if he was really the man, then he would break it off with her and hook up with you. Not mess around on his girl. Remember currently he is in a relationship, let him do what he needs to do first. Remember you don't want it to come back on you.
2006-10-30 16:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ever be interested in a guy that has a girlfriend but flirts with other girls at the same time (and also on his gf's birthday!)?
2006-10-30 16:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Janelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋