Is this too soon?

Question

So I have been dating this woman for a couple of months now and I really would like to see where she stands as far as us being in a relationship. Is it too weird for me to have her over and make dinner for her? If that works and isn't too soon, how do I then pose the question to her that I would like us to be in a relationship of boyfriend/girlfriend rather then two people dating. I feel she is waiting for me to make this move...but Im not positive and I am not going to go the point of having sex with her until I find out where we stand just because

Answer 1

a couple of months? wow. I would have been under the assumption that you were already together. No, it's not too soon to have her over for dinner and ask her 'steady'. Good luck. A true gentleman.

Answer 2

A few months can possibly be long enough for the two of you to establish a good enough relationship for you to ask her over to your place for dinner. There is nothing wrong with just making it a nice romantic dinner for now. Hold off on thinking about sex as part of the date. If after a few more dates, at a minimum, you both feel the relationship is worth holding onto, you will feel better for waiting a while longer, before thinking of getting more intimate (sex). Also, there is never a better time than now to begin asking her about her feelings about the relationship. And her views of what is appropriate. Start really good open communication now. You will never be sorry for good communication. It only helps to strengthen any relationship. If she doesn't answer how you would hope she would answer, take the time to think through, why you are less than pleased with her answers and comments. Perhaps you could work on your self, improving the kind of partener you may be or can become. If she is really important to you, you will find the strength and humilty to make some changes and sacrifices to strengthen her trust in you and her feelings toward you. Without overwhelming her, tell her what you are hoping for in this relationship, and then really listen to what she has to say. Hope it goes well for you.

Answer 3

I think it is perfectly acceptable to ask her over for dinner. And then just see how the evening goes. If all goes well say something like I want to make a commitment to only date you and no one else. See if she feels the same way. I personally like a guy to ask me to be his girlfriend, but some people feel that is immature. But I would hope if I was seeing someone for a couple months that we would be a couple. Good luck :)

Answer 4

Ummmm a couple of months? UH ya..... this chick has been part of your life for a nice chunk of time. So you have every right to make the next move. Once you have her over for dinner, you know when the moment will be right. Just be causal and tell her what you feel. Ya, buddy, touch into some feelings and express them to her. I know men don't do the feeling thing, but you need to think about how you feel about her. Just be real...oh and don't pressure for sex. What is super attractive is a man that does not pressure you for sex. But, yes, become real honest with her, she will like that.

Answer 5

know after a couple of months invite her over its not too soon. then you can see if shes ready to move onto boyfriend/girlfriend relationship which after a couple of months i hope she is.
well done for not rushing things and taking things slow. most people rush on in and it ends in disaster but i think now its safe to move it up a level.
hope all works out well

Answer 6

Just ask her. Tell her, I really like you a lot...i have so much fun when im with you. Ive been thinking about it a lot and i was wondering what you think about us being in a relationship. other than dating.

Answer 7

if your ready to start a relationship with her then go for it. dinner is a great gesture and also a good time to ask her how she feels about you and being in a commited relationship. g'luck

Answer 8

Nothing wrong with making her dinner. While your eating you should tell her that you like her a lot and want to be exclusive with her.

Answer 9

No,that sounds perfect ,after your meal just ask her if she'd like to be your girlfriend and say that you'd like that very much. She wouldn't still be datng you if she wasn't interested,what have you got to loose it's got to move somewhere, good luck x

Answer 10

just tell her how you feel and everything. if she feels the same she will be happy. ask her over for dinner and a conversation and see how it goes. just start talking about it don't be scared or shy about it.