my boygriend and i have been happily together for pretty much a week (tomorrow marks it), but on friday at a game i made out with a guy i amde out with earlier this year. then on saturday i took smoe kids mp3 player from him and told him he wouldnt get it back unless he kissed me. hi di and now i feel bad.
however i told my boyfriend today and he said he was ok with it and that he's not mad....but i'm not sure if he's telling me the truth(he's lied to me once already). i just wanted a kiss and he wasnt at the game or else he would have been the one i kissed!!!
2006-10-30 09:26:59 · 22 answers · asked by (((uniquely.me))) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not think I would call it cheating since it doesn't seem like your in a serious relationship. I think it's a good thing to not limit yourself to one person especially when your young, as for your boyfriend maybe he really isn't upset maybe your not the only one that has some sugar on the side and if he does don't be surprised if he uses what you did as an excuse cause I would.
2006-10-30 09:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by fluttergirl76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is anything you wouldn't do with your brother (if you have one in reality or fantasy land).
You cheated. You don't go around kissing people other than your boyfriend. Based on you sounding young, don't continue to do this or you will develop a reputation of being easy/whore. You shouldn't even have a boyfriend with the way you sound. "i just wanted a kiss and he wasnt at the game or else he would have been the one i kissed!!!" Good God I feel bad for your boyfriend.
2006-10-30 17:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, um, yeah, in my definition that is cheating and based on the reason you kissed that guy, kind of shows you'd do it again too. But... maybe he really doesn't give a shet b/c you were together ONLY a week. A lot of guys don't considering themselves in a relationship unless you've been together a couple weeks.
2006-10-30 17:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats cheating and quite pathetic if it's only been a week..
if you just HAVE to have a kiss when you want one.. i wouldnt get into relationships if i were you. Good luck trying to find a serious boyfriend.. cough.
BTW you're obviously young, if you make this kind of thing a habit you'll get a bad reputation.
2006-10-30 17:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it your a man jumper you just hop from one guy to the next, yes it is cheating. If your Bf is ok with it though then rock on, and see how far the fool will let you go.
2006-10-30 17:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS CHEATING!!!!!!! ONCE YOU SAID KISSING ANOTHER GUY you know better and your not happily together if you already cheated on him come! it doesnt matter why you kissed the other guy you kissed him and thats that plus he might not be mad but dissapointed hopefully you know whats the best for you
2006-10-30 17:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i consider it cheating, and from the sounds of it you two shouldnt be together anyways. If he is already lying to you and you have already kissed 2 guys, within a week!!! It has doomed written all over it.
2006-10-30 17:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by mariah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, Let's see....
You = taken by guy #1
You = kissing other guy #2
You = kissing other guy #3
I'd have to say that it looks like cheating to me. Nevermind the excuse of "he lied to me before".
If you're unable to see the cheating for the kissing, brace yourself for a rough life...
2006-10-30 17:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um u wanted a kiss um u hav a bf wats the matter w/ u and I think he is lying to u
2006-10-30 17:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated, no question. However, that doesn't mean your relationship is over, just that you have to start approaching it with a different attitude.
2006-10-30 17:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by fruninto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋