My girlfriend and I are both 13 years old. We have been going out for about 2 months and Have hugged many times. I really want to kiss her. I know she would like it if we did. But I'm not sure if she is ready to start the kiss. I really want to get to the next step. I'm pretty sure we're capable of it, because on the phone, we have gotten to the point of us talking about her underwear. I need advice on how to take our relationship to the kissing stage. Neither of us have ever kissed the opposite sex.
2006-10-30 09:33:08 · 28 answers · asked by Nick C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FInd a nice quiet moment...outside, or while you're watching a movie at home, some time when there aren't very many people around. There's nothing worse than trying to kiss someone when you feel like you have an audience!! Anyway, start out holding her hand, and just being close to her. Then, if you feel comfortable, tell her that you think she's very pretty, and lean toward her. Odds are she'll lean towards you too - then just press your lips to hers, hold it for a second and break away. After the first kiss, you'll want to do it again, and again and again. When it feels good, try and remember why, it'll help you later on. Above all, enjoy it and don't be scared!
2006-10-30 11:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Matt S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime when you're hanging out, go in for a kiss. Follow the advice in "Hitch" actually. Go in for the kiss, but only go 90% of the way. Let her come the 10%. If she doesn't lean in, back off. You'll know if she's ready. If you want, you can go in for the kiss, but wait a second. If she doesn't move in, give her hug. Try to play it off if you can lol. Hope this helps.
2006-10-30 09:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i can't derectly give you an answer, but i can give a small piece of advice. I remember when i was 14 and my boyfriend tried to kiss me and I was not ready. Make sure she is ready or you will probably be over before you can realive it. Ask her when you two are alone if she is. Then just go for it. Trust me it sounds hard, but it is probably the biggest leap in a relationship. It really isn't that hard.
2006-10-30 09:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is great- You sound like a true gentleman. When the moment is right, you will know it, and remember, you only get one first kiss, so make it a good one, lean in gently, close your eyes and gently press your lips to hers and hold it for just a few seconds. Now is not the time for an open mouth kiss or anything drastic- Make it special, make it romantic and remember it forever! Good luck.
2006-10-30 09:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months is not long enough to take it to the kissing stage. I know you are curious and like her alot but you should just relax and let things go very very slow.Once you kiss, you cannot take it back, so I would suggest that you slow down, and wait and don't do it yet.
2006-10-30 09:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do dont ask her for a kiss, girls dont like that it looks desperate! Just wait for the right moment when your with her and you both stop talking and your just looking at eachother start to lean it!
2006-10-30 09:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if shes not ready then maybe you should just wait....but if u are positive that she is ready then just try asking her...trust me i am only thirteen and me and my boyfriend have been off and on 4 about 1 year and the first time we kissed i wasnt surwe if i was ready or not but i just did it and after the first time it will get better
2006-10-30 09:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're both ready, you'll know.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's about you 2 and only you 2 and how you feel about each other.
No-one else is as important in your relationship as you both.
Enjoy yourselves!
2006-10-30 09:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be thinking about school and grades and sports, you have so much time, your only 13. Let nature take it course, when the time is right you will know......and it will happen
2006-10-30 09:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by bam.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm 13 too!! @ the next school danceand while ur slow dancing laen in and kiss her. but the first time don't make it french. that might freak her out. lust a little kiss the first time.
2006-10-30 09:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋