me my mum and younger brother moved to spain 5 yrs ago and my older sister and her daughter lives in england, weve made trips back to see them almost every yr but she hasnt come out to see us scince we moved, so we all miss my niece alot and dont get much contact with her even though we pretty much took care of her scince she was a baby. it not a money issue either as weve offered to pay for them both several times and flights are cheap, shes also had other holidays in this time and chose not to visit us here for a holiday. weve had lots of rows over this, as my mum hardly gets to see her grandchild, whos right? should we bother with her?
2006-10-30 09:25:15 · 5 answers · asked by luci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, that is very inconsiderate on her behalf. Hey, you can't make her come though. I guess that you should just not bother with trying to get her to come up anymore. It doesn't sound liek she is going to. I guess the only way to see the child is to go visit them
2006-10-30 09:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live in spain too but my prob is the opposite my family wont leave me alone i came here to get away from cetain members of my family but now they are like an extra pile on my *** lol
i also have a brother and a nephew who is 5mths old my brother has been out to see me with my nephew recently and is coming back nxt yr some time but i want to see him than that and ive offered to pay for his flights too but he just gives me excuses he is not short of money either.
have you asked your sis why she doesnt want to come your sis may have an issue which none of you are aware of but she may not know how to tell you.
i think your sis is being a bit selfish but like i say there maybe a reason for this ask her out right what the problem is.
if there isnt a problem thenyou only have one of two choices put up with it and continue to see your niece as much as you can or cut ties with her and give up your niece.
if it was me id put up with it for the sake of my nephew.
2006-10-31 11:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should keep visiting her, but if she doesn't want to travel, big deal. You are the ones who moved away, so if you want to keep in touch by visiting then you should suck it up and go. Sorry, but true. You are never going to be able to make her visit. Let her know the things you like about where you are living and maybe entice her a little, but you can't make her.
2006-10-30 17:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by flutterby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is very strange in family, what is real reason to not come and see you.? your sister only knew. There must be some problem and you don't know about it. Keep try and don't give up.
2006-10-30 17:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't want too see your family then don't bother with her, don't keep making trips out too see her if she doesn't want too see your family she probably does and has other reasons why she doesn't unless of course she just hates your family which is un likely. sorry im no help.
2006-10-30 17:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by valley1800 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋