My friend James* has gotten back together with his girlfriend Weogufka* for the 3rd time! She broke his heart and he said to me that he wasn't going to get back with her! A few months later he did! After she cheated on him and everything he still took her back! The second time they got together she came to him and started to flirt with him. Him and Weogufka* were back together acording to him. Then a few weeks later she says to him that they were only friends! Now about 4 months later she approaches him again and flirts with him yet again! He again gets back with her! It's crazy! What do you think of this situation? Do you think the 3rd times the charm? Let me know what you have to say!
2006-10-30 09:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Brodie Bruce 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way their is no sex to this relationship. They have only kissed,(acording to him).
2006-10-30 09:33:04 · update #1
James is a post graduate of high school so I can't really help look for other girls around my high school.
2006-10-30 09:38:45 · update #2
If you're really his friend, don't sweat it. Have enough respect to let him make his own choices, including mistakes.
2006-10-30 09:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kaosmunki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think hes a very weak person. He needs to grow some damn balls and leave the girl. The sex must be amazing or something. What a little girl he is! Oh well I guess, nothing you can do, hopefully he will pull his head out of his a s s one day. 3rd times for sure not a charm, only gets worse and worse every time they hook back up.
2006-10-30 17:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Seems to me like they are still young, and hey that's just how it goes sometimes. If she is really hurting him and you think she is mindfucking him or something, then you should tell him so! But from what you described it just sounds like two people that don't quite know what they want yet. And yea the Third time could be the charm..... but I doubt it. It's more likely that things would work out for them if they had more time apart and THEN realized they couldn't live with out each other.... but hey ya never know.
2006-10-30 22:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't say if he is right or wrong. Because I've been there too. You'd be amazed what people would put up with when it comes to their heart. So just remember, when James get tired of going back, he will. But you have to be patient with him and let him decide on his own. Until then...don't let it bother you.
2006-10-30 17:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~Fabulous~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad and his gf have broken up numerous of times over the past 5 years because of his cheating ways and now, they are engaged to get married next year.
But how i see it, she sees your friends as a safety guy, if she dates other guys and doesnt like it, she could fall right back to him with no problems.
2006-10-30 17:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of them knows who or what they want. The girl is playing him for a fool. And he is being the sucker. Help him out and try to get him to start looking at other girls around school.
2006-10-30 17:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people need a long time to learn a lesson in human behavior. Be happy, he'll get it eventually.
2006-10-30 17:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't got the problem dear, you have. If you stick around with him it's like giving him a perch to sit on. Give him the "heave ho" and find yourself someone new, get a life, without him.
2006-10-30 17:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is wrogn but every thign happens 4 a reason
2006-10-30 17:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by crybaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its pathetic to be honest with you,if you nbreak up three times theres obviously a reason you shouldnt be together.
2006-10-30 17:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋