i am in love w/ my boyfriend and have been ever since i 1st met him 3 weeks ago but just this past weekend he started changing. he didnt call as much at night, he always had an excuse for not comin over and then when he saw me he acted normal.i just had cheerleading parctice and he was supossed 2 pick me up but he never showed up so i had 2 call my mom 2 come get me.he was supossed 2 come over every night the whole weekend but he kept on comin up w/ excuses.my mom thinks he is cheatin on me because he is almost 18 and he doesnt wanna b stuck w/ a 14 year old then.what should i do???
2006-10-30 09:24:15 · 10 answers · asked by smithluver_1317 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like your boyfriend's very immature way of telling you that the relationship is over. Move on. You may think you're in love, but real love doesn't start within three weeks of meeting someone and jumping into a dating relationship. You don't have to grwo up this fast. And what's up with your mom allowing 14-year-old you to date and almost 18-year-old?
2006-10-30 09:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be worrying about all this stuff. You seem to be too serious for him. He's almost out of high school. He doesn't want a girlfriend that's still gonna be there when he gets out. Plus, it'll be illegal when he turns 18. Date someone closer to your age. Maybe a year older at the most. He's trying not to get too serious. Also, the newness of it all is over, and he could be tired of spending his time talking to you. No offense. Seniors don't get serious with anyone unless it's with another senior. I witnessed this stuff when I was in school. Don't think too much about it.
2006-10-30 17:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask him but he may just need some space. On the other hand i think 18 and 14 is to much of a maturity difference but thats me.
2006-10-30 17:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all 14 will get him 20. You can't know someone in 3 weeks! Are you crazy? I've been with my boyfriend since I was 12 (I'm now 21) and he still surprises me! You should find someone your own age!
2006-10-30 17:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL 3 WEEKS LMAO LOVE!!! HES NOT CHANGIN HES SHOWIN HIS TRUE COLORS ROFL!!!! DUDE UR 14 HES 18 find a kid ur age.... dont b the reason 4 another pedaphile (or however u spell it)
2006-10-30 17:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you know what to do find someone else at least you find out now and youve only wasted three weeks
2006-10-30 17:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 14 and he's 18? there's a word for guys like him , pervert ! dump the jerk sweetie .
2006-10-30 17:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by sterling m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats the matter\ breck up with him if he is that different and you dont like it
2006-10-30 17:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by karina p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is right.
2006-10-30 17:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask y
2006-10-30 17:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋