Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

My bf & I finalized things last night. After 4 years, he is now officially my ex. We got rid of all the bad blood & resentment and agreed that the breakup isn't for lack of love or effort. We each just have things to work out in our lives. I was certain that having that talk would be the 'cure all' I needed. I guess not, because I still had that ache inside of me when I woke up this morning. It's for the best, I know, but how do I get myself out of this funk? I miss him US so very much, it hurts. I just want to be able to walk into a store or drive on a highway without some memory coming to haunt me. The pain? It's almost physical. I literally have to take deep, slow breaths sometimes because I feel like my chest might explode. I want to stop crying all the time. I want to be ok with the fact that there's no 'us' anymore. He's ok. He bounced right back up. Why can't I? I'm not a weak person, At 28, I've pulled myself through a lot of crap in life. What's wrong now? Why is this so hard?

2006-10-24 07:02:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont. Someone may look amazing but usually I'm disappointed when I get to know them. Just wondered if anyone else thought the same?

2006-10-24 07:02:20 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends boyfriend jocked her so she would break up with him.. he done it in front of everyone and then just laughed in her face!!! she is also having problems at home. she confided in one of her friends when that person saw her arms.. i found out and dont know what to do!!! Help!!!

2006-10-24 07:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by Join The Revolution! 2 in Friends

He feels as long as he isnt doing anything wrong then things are okay.. but she is really getting on my nerves with the flirting and obvious attraction. I want to tell her off, but I feel he needs to step in help???

2006-10-24 07:01:47 · 20 answers · asked by Erika M 2 in Friends

I'm in the 9th Grade.

Don't give me inapproiprate answers or i'll report you.

2006-10-24 07:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ago. She left him at birth. When she finally found him.He thought she was dead((long story)). He was in shock and decided to give her a chance so we met her drove all the way to meet her. She was great. Though she lived in GA and we lived in La. We talked over the phone.After talking to her for a few months she decided to wanna borrow a bunch of money and their was other problems so we stoped talking to her. When Katrina came we decided once again to give his mom a chance. We moved to GA and it was wonderful for him to be there we got to know his sister((16 years old))). However, his mom wanted to be mommy and didn't see he's a grown man. She didn't see me in the picture didn't think we should marry and when she found out we was pregnant a few months before the wedding. She hated that idea even more. My husband decided to leave. And loose contact with her. His sister was in a foster family because his mom drug problems. So I had my son. NOT DONE DON"T ANSWER TILL I ADD ALL DETAILS.

2006-10-24 07:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by Sondra 3 in Family

There's a guy I know at work, just a friend. Should I invite him to go to the conference coming up in Nov. at the WI Dells? It's for consumers. We don't talk much but I know he likes me as a person because he says hi any chance he gets. He went to the same conference 2 years ago...

2006-10-24 07:01:21 · 1 answers · asked by RetroGal 1 in Friends

i m 19 in age.
and less then 92 punds .
all laugh at me boys and girls i feel shame:((

2006-10-24 07:01:09 · 5 answers · asked by life4u 2 in Singles & Dating

That a friend who tried to have a relationship with you, but you rejected them, would still remain friends with you and your bf, after the rejection?

2006-10-24 07:00:36 · 7 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 07:00:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 07:00:06 · 9 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Singles & Dating

Who was the first boy/girl you ever felt you loved So Much that you couldn't stop dreaming about them and when they noticed you .......Your heart Leaped ???
My Daughter has all the signs of Love Sick But i can't get anything out of her ???
So people who was your first love and what was so special about them ?

2006-10-24 06:59:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if so how?

2006-10-24 06:59:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend who's 31 and he likes to date females between the ages of 18-21. Well I'm 34 and I prefer females between the ages of 25-35 because I'm not into younging I want grown women. Me and my friend are not on the same page I think he needs to grown up. So do any of you feel the same?

2006-10-24 06:59:24 · 12 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Singles & Dating

They are both prefessional Chefs, so they don't need anything for the kitchen and already own a home that is well furnished. I don't feel like I can show up empty handed and would hate to give them a gift certificate, any ideas??

2006-10-24 06:59:02 · 26 answers · asked by krista_focus 2 in Weddings

i'm trying to do my wedding on a budget, and i need to know if that would offend any of my guests.

2006-10-24 06:58:49 · 397 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm a 27 year old gal. My HS reunion is next year. I'm preparing now to know what kind of attire I should get for my reunion...

2006-10-24 06:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by RetroGal 1 in Friends

I am madly in love with my finacee and he is more than madly in love with me. We are really wonderful for each other and very supportive. My heart tells me that he is my true love, the one. But my mind is saying something different. He is a different religion than I am and neither of us want to change our faith. When I talk to my friends and loved ones about us, they are very disagreable with his religion and culture. I believe that they are going on stereoypes, but some of my friends also married into this religion and culture and tell me that once we are married he will totally change and become very dominant. I am concerned about that and have talked to him about it. He doesn't believe that will happen. I can't get what they say out of my mind, and I want to make the best choice for both of us.

Am I just being silly?

What is the more important thing to follow, what your mind thinks or what your heart wants?

Thank you for your time!

2006-10-24 06:58:30 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Im friends with benifits with some girl and some other girl likes me, when my friend with benifits found out she got mad like asked me if I would rather be friends with benifits with her or go out with another girl... What does this mean? That she wants to be more than friends with benifits or something?

2006-10-24 06:58:16 · 11 answers · asked by kicks401 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 06:57:57 · 7 answers · asked by launa b 1 in Weddings

How do you tell the new person that you are a denture wearer?

2006-10-24 06:57:53 · 5 answers · asked by Child of God 3 in Singles & Dating

does Peter Griffin live on spooner street? I just thought about that hehehe spooner

2006-10-24 06:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 06:57:35 · 20 answers · asked by AAP0305 5 in Singles & Dating

"You, YOU! are saying YOU like ME? Why you little girl, you! What makes you think I would even LOOK at you! I can't believe it! The ugliest girl this side of town and YOU are interested in ME?!? What do you think I am? Desparate?!? You are disgusting! Oh, would you like to go out (hahaha)? Give me a break! You talk funny, the cloths you wear wouldn't turn a light on, you call that a 'hair style', and your acne scars are the WORSE! Don't even think I will lower myself to your level. HA! You are even over-weight, not obese, but still tipping the scale. I like my women tight and shapely! You are a loose bag with fat ripples. Hey, see those people over there? 'Hey, fellows, you'll never guess what? This so-and-so confessed she likes me!' (and those people laugh) Stop your lousy crying you *****. Geez, just go away!"

That has NEVER EVER happend to me. But, that is the fear I get when I like a guy. Is this what other people think when it comes to rejection?

2006-10-24 06:57:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It keeps bothering me all the time and I really want this to come back to him.I can't wish anything good for him because he caused me tremendous amount of pain.I did alot for him.

2006-10-24 06:57:05 · 13 answers · asked by ABCD 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Finace, whom I love very much watches porno way to much in my opinion and I want to know why! He watches them after he gets home from work when I am still at work or whenever I leave the house. He always watches them when I am not around. He is well aware that it makes me feel very unwanted and like **** pretty much! I wouldnt feel this way but I think he would rather watch porn than have sex with me because I am willing to do it most of the time! Its not like I dont want to have sex!I even took all of his pornos and hid them from him in a VERY GOOD SPOT and he found them! I would have never thought he would have found them where I put them. And so I knew he found them because I saw a few of them were gone and I asked him about it and he lied to me and said he cant find them! So somebody please tell me why he is lieing to me about watching porno and why would he rather watch other people have sex than to have sex with me! I am not ugly or fat so I dont know whats wrong!

2006-10-24 06:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For anyone who has worked or works at Sears....What are the interviews like,what kinds of questions do they?
ask you, what is the dress code,and is the a good place to work? I have an interview for a seasonal postion in customer sales. I' m wondering what to expect....

2006-10-24 06:56:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My guy and I have been dating for two years...we rushed everything and had tons of problems in the first year, but the second year was pretty good and I am extremely happy with the progress we've made. Sometimes I get discouraged and have the thought in my mind...is he the one? I'm kinda scared to settle on that decision because it is the rest of my life...

2006-10-24 06:56:17 · 25 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

saying i love you within the 1st wk of dating

2006-10-24 06:56:08 · 28 answers · asked by A-Trip 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 yrs old, in 12th standard in meerut

2006-10-24 06:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by kitty jenny 1 in Friends