My friends boyfriend jocked her so she would break up with him.. he done it in front of everyone and then just laughed in her face!!! she is also having problems at home. she confided in one of her friends when that person saw her arms.. i found out and dont know what to do!!! Help!!!
2006-10-24 07:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by Join The Revolution! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all try to talk to her and let her know that she is worth so much as a person and that you care about her very much. Also tell her that there are other alternatives like talking about problem whether it be to a friend or counselor. If that does not work you really need to tell someone. the fact that she told someone about it is a cry for help she might be upset if her secret is our but it will benefit her in the long run. Good luck and I'll pray for your friend.
2006-10-24 07:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her.. If that doesn't help you prob need to go down to the guidence counselor at do an annonomous tip.. You have to think about if she kills herself how are you going to feel.. She needs help.. She is crying out.. She doesn't know how to ask for it.. I went through cutting with my daughter.. I took her too the hospital.. they made her go to a program for 7 days.. She then came home and I have a social worker from the teen crisis come to my house once a week.. Things have gotten better for everyone.. It helped us at home and her.. If she is having a problem at home this cld help her family.. The school has alot more access to alot of stuff that will help her.. and if they have no insurance i think the school can help them with it also.. Remember you could be saving her life.. Shes someones daughter, cousin, friend, niece, grandaughter.. And I'm sure they would miss her very much.. Good Luck sweetie..
2006-10-24 14:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by SweetOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u r doing the right thing that is asking for advise....Find out what is bothering her and why does she like to feel pain or hurt herself?She is very depressed and you can be a friend that cares.Tell her what you are afraid of how much she means to you.Life can be so joyfull...also try to find help like a couselor or even a grown up that cares a lot bout her...don;t keep it a secret if you love her then it might could be tooo late...She needs a lot of attention that is why they do it.PPL can see it and she hopes that someone will see it and help her but dont wait too long ....I pray
2006-10-24 14:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by aldatuneed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting is serious. The way you can help your friend is to get an adult involved. If her parents are not an option how about your mother, a teacher or counselor at school, an adult friend or relative of either of you? Your friend needs help, cutting usually gets worse. good luck and your friend is lucky to have you
2006-10-24 14:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by MUD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all her boyfriend is scum. If the problems at home are serious, she should see a school counselor. You are a good friend and I hope you can help her.
2006-10-24 14:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this poor girl has several problems, how nice you are trying to help. First of all tell her to leave that so call boyfriend, she does not need him, he has no respect for her, and less for himself. tell her she can do better by her self. Then you have to go to the guidance counselor, at school. please do this, she need help couping. Her parents also needs to be told, Ask her what she can do to make things better at home, some times we are not doing what we are suppose to do, blaming every one, and not doing what we are suppose to be doing!
2006-10-24 14:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a school counselor or another adult and get your friend help, fast. This is serious and she needs outside intervention.
2006-10-24 16:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk with your parents or a teacher at school to get some help for her? Talk with someone who can help her to get some help and if you can have her go with you to see someone, then you can excuse yourself while she talks.
she's lucky you care and you can't do this yourself, push her to talks with someone.
2006-10-24 14:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by sev1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a counselor at your high school or a close family friend she needs help!!
2006-10-24 14:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her and being there for her because she relly needs love and sympathy and whatever is going on its not good try getting her to talk to a counseler and im sure it will help
2006-10-24 14:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Beunikia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋