I have a friend who's 31 and he likes to date females between the ages of 18-21. Well I'm 34 and I prefer females between the ages of 25-35 because I'm not into younging I want grown women. Me and my friend are not on the same page I think he needs to grown up. So do any of you feel the same?
2006-10-24 06:59:24 · 12 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should just worry about yourself when it comes this. He likes what he likes, and you like what you like. Why is your way the best??? As long as these women are of age then it shouldn't matter. Just because you date older women doesn't mean that they will necessarily be better women. There are plenty of younger women that know how to carry themselves and act like a lady. Your friend is only 31, that's not even old, and to say he needs to grow up is pretty low of you. You should be supporting him instead of trying to change him. You should be happy for him no matter who he dates. Age means nothing when love and compatibility are involved. I don't agree with you at all where this is concerned. Women are women no matter what age. You have the good ones and the not so good ones, but age never defines that. I think the only person here that needs to grow up is you. Worry about yourself and let your friend live his own life and do what makes him happy.
2006-10-24 07:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6 + years older than my wife. Our first date was the day before her graduation ceremony. We dated 18 months and were engaged for13 months. This year we will have been married for 14 years. The age differences you refer to are more, but I don't know that it's a problem. We all mature differently. There is no need to grow up any quicker than you have to. As long as his intentions are honorable, let it ride. If I ever found myself alone, I would probably go even younger than my wife. That's just me. I feel and act very young. It's just a number.
2006-10-24 07:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by randband4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really see where age makes a difference, But to each their own. But my husband is 13 years older than me. When he graduated from high school at 18, I was 4. So, some men do like younger women. SOmetimes you can find a younger woman who is mature enough for what you are looking for.
2006-10-24 07:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by nonamedcreature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to look at all ages 18-99; but not date all ages LOL
2006-10-24 07:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am 24 and I had been with a 18 year old and it sucked seriously even the sex I prefer women my age and some older I don't know its just hard to relate to a younger lady
2006-10-24 07:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My bf is 24 and i'm 17 but we have a lot im common, maybe that's just what your friend likes, you have your type and so does he, so what's the matter with that.
2006-10-24 07:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ABSOLUTELY FEEL THE SAME I AM 34 AND I LOVE GIRLS BETWEEN 18 AND 21 THERE THE HOTTEST...
2006-10-24 09:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by cob_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just out for fun and not ready to settle down. You sound like you are ready to make a future with a woman. He'll grow up...just may take a while.
2006-10-24 07:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes to train, you like pretrained ones. As long as they are of age hes all good, maybe they are tighter and have more stamina?
2006-10-24 07:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some older women are more mature, maybe your friend hasnt grown up yet, or cant handle a real woman yet.
2006-10-24 07:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋