I dont. Someone may look amazing but usually I'm disappointed when I get to know them. Just wondered if anyone else thought the same?
2006-10-24 07:02:20 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't either...and I think that the people who have had it happen to them just got extremely lucky.
2006-10-24 07:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight, hmm has not happened to me that often.
Lust at first site has.
But you can usually tell something about the person by seeing them and understanding what the chances of a connection are.
I think although I have had that deep connection at first site recently, the sceptic in me is like always qualifying it so that I have an open mind and am not disappointed. Probably a function of experience. Also there are so many levels to a person, I can often be surprised pleasantly after the third or fourth time where I hadn't held up much hope on the first or second meeting
In my younger days, yes I do remember being disappointed. However my target market now, attractive women in there late twenties to mid thirties however have lived some sort of life and there is something to talk about or uncover.
2006-10-24 07:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive in it. This lust story is all very true tho but when I met my current GF it was somehting different. Somehow like I'd met my dream woman. She didn't look like a supermodel or anything just very pretty and exactly what I wanted. Classy, stylish, funny and into the same things. We met on a plane, it was quite romantic. After a lot of **** tho (she had some baggage) we split after 2 years but the 6 months later had to get back together again.
That first moment when we held hands again was one of the most moving moments of my life. It was electric...
The baggage is still there tho! ho hum....
2006-10-24 07:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in love at first sight. I met a guy 6 years ago and although he was not the most handsome guy I'd ever met he had charisma. When he came close to me my whole body tingled and experienced a rush that I'd never felt before IT WAS LOVE !
I didn't know that he felt exactly the same way.
We are still together now and our love is still as strong as ever x
2006-10-24 07:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!
I believe that if you feel like your in love at your first sighting it's all based on looks but the sweetest people are usually not very pretty, cute or fit however you want to put it.
However I saw a boy he was very talented and very cute that was last May and I still remember his face perfectly.
2006-10-24 07:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by elizacooper1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is something that only very sappy people believe. Some people will say "Oh, when I met my husband it was love at first sight." No it wasn't, it was attraction at first sight and that caused you to spend more time with him and over time you two grew together and love started to form.
You can't look at someone and know you love them. You can't look at someone and know you want them and only them. You can't look at someone and know you would like to spend your life with them and grow old with them. You can't look at someone and know they will laugh at the same stupid jokes or cry at long distance phone commercials or do something that other people find annoying but you think is cute.
Love is so much bigger than what you see.
2006-10-24 07:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust at first sight yes, love...not so much....but that would depend on ur definition of love.....if u can see everything u love just from a look then u got a hella second sight or somethin to i ono love that person for more than just looks n what have u.....i dont believe in it but again, that would just have to depend on ur definition of love, what it is and how u get to that feeling beyond a doubt in ur mind that it could be anything else but...
2006-10-24 07:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This gets asked here weekly, if not more.
No, I don't believe in it...attraction, or lust? Absolutely...but love takes time to develop...an initial attraction or lust may grow into love over time, but 'at first sight'? No way...that diminishes the idea of love...to think we could feel a deep, heartfelt emotion toward a complete stranger.
2006-10-24 07:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in Love at first sight !
i also believe that theres someone for everyone out in this big wide world !
And i hope that everyone finds that special someone who they can cuddle up to at night and be proud to call them there boyfriend/Girlfriend......Wife/Husband !
Disappointment can unfortunatley happen and when it does you can't quite help felling let down and of course disappointed. But i believe that theres definately someone for everyone !
2006-10-24 07:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you there. What you see when you first meet someone is just a shell, the outside. The inside could be a total disaster. When I meet a person who is ugly on the inside, then even the outside starts looking ugly. I could never meet someone and just say I am in love with them. I must get to know that individual well and know that it is someone who will respect me and is worth my time.
2006-10-24 07:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree. I thought I was in love at first sight, with someone at work. We did get together and It lasted 2 years but she didnt love me, she used me to escape the clutches of the man she was living with. Then she left me for someone she described as "Asian and he's gorgeous and rich". Now there's a puzzle for you!
2006-10-24 07:08:46 · answer #11 · answered by fuck off 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋