Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

We've only been on 2 dates but I know the spark isn't there. I know I SHOULD be a 'man' and tell him in person or on the phone but its much easier to do in email. Is that so wrong?

2006-10-24 07:37:59 · 24 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 07:37:28 · 18 answers · asked by eskee 1 in Singles & Dating

I am tryin to locate my brother that is in the Navy stationed in Japan. The Red Cross can't do it unless their is a family emergency. We have looked at different sites, but they need the actual rank and official job that he has, which we aren't sure of because he changed jobs right before he left. We just want to make sure he is safe, and to just get a friendly hello to him. Can someone please help me or give me some hints?

2006-10-24 07:37:08 · 2 answers · asked by Sonaria17 1 in Family

Okay for those of us who have been around awhile (no teens please, your still figuring out how to tie your shoes and chew gum), when do you know when you are going from one stage to the other. I read all of these Y!A questions like, "how do I know when I am in love?" LOL

Come on, I know and have been through all the stages, but I want to see what you guys know. LOL Come on blow me away by your answers - I dare you.

2006-10-24 07:36:58 · 7 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy and I'm sure he likes me, every time we're in the same place we keep looking at each other the whole night and if there's a dance we always dance with each other but we barely speak to each other. Also when I walk down the street he would drive up and down---There is a dance coming up this Saturday what will I do or are some guys better kept as eye candy?

2006-10-24 07:36:57 · 2 answers · asked by sexy chick 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been in this great secure relationship for 6 years. But every now my ex has a mutual friend call for him or he emails me. And everytime i talk to him, i seem to start back getting weak for him. He is currently married, but is telling me he wants to be with me and he has never stopped loving me. I am not sure if he is sincere since we have not been together since 2000. Or if he just wants me as a rebound? When we were together he was this big player. Do you think it is possible to trust someone whom broke your heart in the past? I'm not sure if he is just saying all these things because marriage is on the rocks. What do you think????

2006-10-24 07:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by Gamergrl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not sexually attracted to my wife anymore. I am here for the kids and the kids only. I am their primary care giver but she is not a bad mom, just there to pick up the slack when I cannot attend to the kids. I have to get drunk to have sex with her. She kissed a guy at work when he knew we were having trouble a couple of years ago, so I know she has it in her to cheat. Should I hire someone to seduce her and sleep with her? That way I can get pictures for court and get custody of my kids.

2006-10-24 07:36:15 · 68 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i live in a really small town and there isn't many places and/or people to chose from.

2006-10-24 07:36:13 · 28 answers · asked by Shelby 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried everything, table food, having her sit with the family, nothing is working the only thing i can get her to eat is cracker and cookies. She won't let me feed her, she refuses to open her mouth and if i do she either gags or tries spitting it back out. What do I do???

2006-10-24 07:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by sarah m 1 in Family

Two months ago, my husband (of 18 mths) dropped a bombshell and told me that he no longer has any feelings for me. We've been together for 5 yrs. He doesn't seem interested in anything, he doesn't even seem to care about himself and I've been banned from showing any affection towards him. Despite all this, I love him. We saw a relate counsellor once, which scared him off even more. What do I do?

2006-10-24 07:36:00 · 36 answers · asked by Kanst 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, here goes. I always have to pick up a friend of mine for work. We work 6 days a week, and realistically, it's only about 3 blocks away. Btu he's never ready to go to work when I am, and sometimes I'm sitting there for 15 minutes honking the horn waiting. And when we get out of work, I'm waiting on him too. What really MAKES ME ANGRY is, he acts like he doesn't want to get a vehicle. He spent 250 the other day at Best Buy when he could have put it on a car. I'm enraged and need serious help from anyone who cares about people who get taken advantage of. What are some things I can do...I can't do this anymore, it's gone on for a year or so, and he's becoming a leech of sorts. I just feel bad about it, because he made me his best man at his wedding and considers me his only "real" friend.

2006-10-24 07:35:29 · 15 answers · asked by jokerscard692000 4 in Friends

She'll be back after work, I think it'll be a good gag. Do you think she'll laugh?

2006-10-24 07:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she will not send even a photo! she told the courts she would come from up north to let me see them and that's why they let her move up there she will not tell me anything about them when i call.. and hangs up alot of times if i try to ask them any ?'s about there life! school, doctor's ,friends, i can't afford a lawer sice i was a truck driver but child support took my lic for missing payments. now a can't even find a job that pays anything after i pay the child support! they have put me in jail 3 times for missing payments over the 9 years even when i was living outside! told to sell my cloths and give her the $.. yet she is a r.n and remarried 2 weeks after my divorce. she charged $49.000 on my name and has lied about me to every court we went to when i knew were she lived to the point i lost my temper in court after her trying to say i was doing things to my little girl! can anyone help me to see my kids and maybe lower the payments since i am $20,000 and can't do anything ?addres

2006-10-24 07:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by tommoore66 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been to a nude beach, or would you goto one?

I'm going on vacation this winter and I found out that there is a nude beach at/near the resort were staying at. I have never been to a nude beach and woundered what it was like. I think I would be comfortable going since its out of the country but do not know what to expect. Can anyone help, please?
Please im me lacy_pj_s or email me lacy_pj_s@yahoo.com if u can talk.

2006-10-24 07:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you think of masturbate and is it bad to do should I or what should i do so I won't b/c i have no one to be with!!!And I need some one or something to do!!PLEASE HELPME!!

2006-10-24 07:33:58 · 4 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother of 3. I do not get any child support from my ex. I have been dating this guy for over a year now and he has asked me to marry him.. I said YES because I love him with all of my heart. He has 2 kids of his own which I have helped support. In the last year that we have been together he cant seem to hold down a job.. He has an education and all but cant hold one down. I Have helped support him thru each job loss because my mother passed away and left me with a little bit of money.. Well the money is gone, his daughter is living with us in MY house I might add and I am so frustrated with him.. He is looking everyday for a job and I know he is capable of finding one but damn... I feel like ever since we met I have been supporting him and I hate it... I have 3 kids of my own that I have to support. I have a full time job and I am trying to get thru the grief of losing my mother and brother in one year and I want someone to support me for a change.. Am i wrong?

2006-10-24 07:33:39 · 20 answers · asked by maggie 1 in Singles & Dating

HE NEVER GOES OUT, HE STAYS HOME WITH ME ALL THE TIME HE WONT GO ANYWERE WITH HIS FRIENDS UNLESS I CAN GO HE STOPED TALKING TO ALL HIS FRIENDS THAT WERE GIRLS ITS ALL ABOUT ME BUT HES SO MEAN TO ME HE YELLS AT ME HE ACCUSES ME OF THINGS I DONT DO HES JUST A JERK HE CAN BE SO SWEET AND NICE AND THEN ACT LIKE A JERK DOES HE LOVE ME? IM NOT SAYING IM PERFECT BUT NEITHER IS HE................

2006-10-24 07:33:06 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Singles & Dating

HE NEVER GOES OUT, HE STAYS HOME WITH ME ALL THE TIME HE WONT GO ANYWERE WITH HIS FRIENDS UNLESS I CAN GO HE STOPED TALKING TO ALL HIS FRIENDS THAT WERE GIRLS ITS ALL ABOUT ME BUT HES SO MEAN TO ME HE YELLS AT ME HE ACCUSES ME OF THINGS I DONT DO HES JUST A JERK HE CAN BE SO SWEET AND NICE AND THEN ACT LIKE A JERK DOES HE LOVE ME? IM NOT SAYING IM PERFECT BUT NEITHER IS HE................

2006-10-24 07:32:50 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Singles & Dating

because i think been a bit out of order to

2006-10-24 07:32:48 · 22 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Singles & Dating

I also sing quite eliquently in the bath, and have been known to bake a mean Victoria sponge...answers please.

2006-10-24 07:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by mizzsquitz 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 07:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I knew this person while studying. We got along but didn't really do a lot of things together. Now suddenly they want to do things together and that's great - but only when it suits them. It seems like whenever I propose something they have to change it to fit their schedule which classes with mine very often. Also, they seem unhappy when I bring my boyfriend along. I've even been stood up, so...

What should I do? I would greatly appreciate advice as to avoid future situations like this. Thanks for your time.

2006-10-24 07:31:07 · 12 answers · asked by sirinae 2 in Friends

When people get married and begin having children, do you find that you have less in common with your single, or non-married friends without children? Does marriage automatically mean a time when you and your hubby are supposed to be looking for friends that are couples, and therefore, have more in common with you? I have friends that are now married with children, or that have one without the other, who I rarely talk to anymore. I guess you can't change the fact that people grow apart...but it'd be nice to think that some friendships actually do last forever.

2006-10-24 07:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Its very flattering but does it necessarily mean she loves you like crazy? She said it was just the one kiss and she knew it wasn't right, now we're back together.

Have I met the right woman or am I just a good kisser?

2006-10-24 07:30:28 · 36 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm Christian and so is my husband and children but his family is not and they want us to celibrate christmas with them. Last year they didn't want to say a prayer before we ate and when I did I got a lecture how I was weak in the mind cause I needed to believe in God. Well I don't want to celibrate Christmas with them. It's a christian holiday and they are not christians. My husband only sees his family 2 or 3 times a year and thinks I should just buck it up and get along with them for christmas. I would rather stay home alone and let him and the kids go than celibrate christmas with non believers. Should I stay home alone or buck it up and go??

2006-10-24 07:30:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend i met online, i talked about him before, but we are really close, we can talk to each other about anything, and if we were in the same state we would probaly be together, we both fell in love with each other but circumstances just didn;t allow us to be together at this time and we are both seeing other people. I have come to terms with us just being friends , but its hard at times because i just started a new relationship , which i really like this guy we spend alot of time together and we are really trying to get to know each other. but my friends stayas on my mind, how can i overcome this, has anyone had this problem before. should i tell my boyfriend how i feel or just try to get over it.

2006-10-24 07:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 07:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by fayra_elm 4 in Weddings

I been w/my boyfriend for 8 mths. He has been divorced for 2 yrs & has a 12 yr old daughter. About 2 mths ago I met his daughter & she is the sweetest thing & her & I got along really good. Last month my b/f & I moved in 2gether & thing is her mom calls late asking stupid question 2 my b/f that r none of his concern anymore, things I think she should handle on her own (they r divorced) Also the other night he & I got into a big fight & he bought some liquor & got drunk @ the house. Well he called 2 talk 2 his daughter b/c they talk every night & he asked 2 speak 2 her after they hung up, her mom called right back & asked my b/f if he was drunk, he said "I'm fine, I'm fine...bye, what? No, I am fine & hung up." That's all I heard & he told me she was asking if he was drunk. My thing is y is it any of her business. My b/f told me well she knows me (they were married for 10 yrs.) But regardless I think it's disrespectful her calling if it doesn't involve his daughter. Am I wrong?

2006-10-24 07:28:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't think it is but please give me your input. thanks

2006-10-24 07:28:15 · 23 answers · asked by ♥♡CrocsRule♡♥ 1 in Family

and you notice he has "grown", how do you think you would react?

2006-10-24 07:28:04 · 16 answers · asked by thehiddenangle 3 in Singles & Dating