New boyfriend/ex-wife drama?

Question

I been w/my boyfriend for 8 mths. He has been divorced for 2 yrs & has a 12 yr old daughter. About 2 mths ago I met his daughter & she is the sweetest thing & her & I got along really good. Last month my b/f & I moved in 2gether & thing is her mom calls late asking stupid question 2 my b/f that r none of his concern anymore, things I think she should handle on her own (they r divorced) Also the other night he & I got into a big fight & he bought some liquor & got drunk @ the house. Well he called 2 talk 2 his daughter b/c they talk every night & he asked 2 speak 2 her after they hung up, her mom called right back & asked my b/f if he was drunk, he said "I'm fine, I'm fine...bye, what? No, I am fine & hung up." That's all I heard & he told me she was asking if he was drunk. My thing is y is it any of her business. My b/f told me well she knows me (they were married for 10 yrs.) But regardless I think it's disrespectful her calling if it doesn't involve his daughter. Am I wrong?

Answer 1

Well, if he calls his daughter at her mothers house and he is drunk, that would fall under her concern. If my ex was to call my children and she was drunk when she called, I can promise you I would call back and ask if she was drunk and let her know that she was not welcome to call when she was drunk and talk to the girls. As far as the other stuff, I am not sure, but if he was drunk and called, then he was wrong and his ex had a right to be concerned.

Answer 2

Yes. They were married for a long time and have a child together. If something negative is going on with him - like trying to drunk dial his own kid - that is the business of the mother. If you don't like that situation maybe you shouldn't get involved with someone with an ex-wife and a kid. Because they're tied together (or should be) for as long as that child is alive.

Answer 3

yep - you're wrong